10/12/2025
Landen Satterfield, currently on exchange in Skopje, recaps his fond memory of helping his local family pick grapes in Prespa, Albania:
I went to Albania to help my host grandmother with the grape harvest. I was stunned by its natural beauty. Over the shared meal, I showed HBaba pictures of my family, my mother and father,
stepmother and stepfather, and all my siblings. It was a lot for her to take in. She looked at me with genuine confusion, trying to understand how one person could have two sets of parents. Her
questions were direct ones I’d never thought to ask myself, and though some might have taken offense, I didn’t. Instead, I found it fascinating to see my life through her eyes, shaped by a completely different world.
The next morning we woke early for the grape harvest. On the mountain vineyard overlooking the lake, I expected a few vines but instead found thousands, heavy with fruit. We picked and carried for hours, pausing only for breakfast in the shade, and by midday had gathered nearly two tons of red and white grapes for wine and rakia.
Later, walking along the lake with views of Greece and Macedonia, cows and sheep dotted the fields. The second day, I woke to an amazing breakfast and a glass of fresh milk from the cow out back, Belka. To my surprise, Baba asked me to stay longer. She had grown so fond of me that she wanted me to remain and help take care of the baby calf. Her warmth caught me off guard, and I felt grateful to have made such a genuine connection. What began as a simple grape harvest became a much deeper exchange of work, language, and kindness.
Through this experience, I learned that people’s lived histories—shaped by everything from communism to the present day—deeply influence how they express care and connection. I realized that affection isn’t always shown through immediate friendliness, but through shared effort and the willingness to help. But finally, I learned that communication doesn't always have to be verbal, and oftentimes the most important things are communicated with no words at all.