16/09/2015
Excerpt from an AUI student's Fall 2013 Community Involvement Report, featured in the AUI Leadership Development Institute newsletter
The House Of The Child Or How An Umpteenth Graduation Requirement Turned Out To Be One Of The Best Experiences In My Life
Anonymous
The “Association des Amis de l’Hôpital d’Enfants de Rabat” was founded in July 1992. The main concern of this association is children hospitalized at the Rabat Children Hospital. The Child House was created in 2008. It is a 600 m2 structure dedicated to the educational support and the distraction of the children
hospitalized.
As this was my first social experience, I didn’t know whether I would enjoy the time spent with the children or whether it will be an annoying experience. Thanks to this experience, I know now that I am willing to engage more in social actions. I learnt also that I like taking care of children. Making them happy, lis-
tening to them, talking to them, and sharing what I know with them is something rewarding. For the first time in my life, I felt I was doing something useful. Although it was temporary, I know now that I can be useful by helping others. Being in contact with children made me realize that I was lucky to be healthy and
have my parents to support me. Therefore, I have to share part of what life gave me and stop complaining.
This experience was also an occasion to learn to be patient. I am impatient by nature. I cannot stand to wait and I cannot stand people who take time to do something. So the first day, I looked frequently at my watch, waiting for the first day to end. However, over time, I learnt to appreciate the time spent with children. I learnt that it takes time to gain the trust of children. I learnt that we should not judge people too quickly. Finally, I learnt that by being impatient, I was missing good occasions to meet interesting people and sometimes making the wrong decisions in my life.
I think I tried to be as close as possible to the children. I didn’t take into account that I was 23 and that the oldest among them was only 14. I think this is why I was valued in this association, both by the children and by the staff. I noticed that by good remarks of the staff and by the children’s demonstrations of affec-
tion. As for how I would talk about sick children to people I know, I think that if we ignore for a moment the disease and if we only focus on the person we are facing, those children are perfectly normal, with interesting things to say and interesting traits of personality.
I think Morocco is still far behind developed countries in the field of health. Our country doesn’t have the material and human resources to ensure good care for everyone. Besides, I was lucky enough to be in the best pediatric center in Morocco. I guess that the situation in isolated areas is worse. I think we don’t all
have equal access to care. I myself was treated for leukemia at the age of ten. However, I see clearly that I received better care than needy children. This makes me think that there is still a gap between the rich ones and the poor ones in terms of the quality and the access to care. Efforts must be made. Nevertheless, I
think there is hope when I see that the government and the associations are mobilizing for this cause.
When I think of the moments spent with the children, I have only one desire: try the experience again. At first, I think I'll volunteer again in this association. The second step will be maybe to become a donator. Finally, if I have enough financial resources in the future, I hope to create an association to help needy children.
On the other hand, being an engineer, I want to engage with “Engineers Without Borders” and help the most isolated populations in Morocco to get access to water and electricity.
I truly think that Al Akhawayn University offers us a unique experience as students to get involved socially during our academic career. This is not common in Moroccan universities.
I truly think also that this experience changed me and made me grow up. I think that I needed an experience like this one to judge the reality of the health system in my country and estimate all the efforts that must be made to change the current situation of the health system.