Care Up Consultancy

Care Up Consultancy We offer mentorship program, organizational trainings, professional counselling services to anyone in need of Counseling.

Bookings are on going just hit our inbox. About the founder
DESTINY SHAPERS MENTORING PROGRAME was founded by Moses Njoroge over an informal conversation about the "kids these days."(With a friend who also happens to be a PLATINUM PARTNER OF ( “DBD”) We were both frustrated with the apathetic "I don't care" attitude that has become prevalent among the younger generation. We realized that by simply

venting about the problem, we became part of the problem. Our desire to be a part of the solution is how DESTINY SHAPERS MENTORING PROGRAME organization was formed. I first began with the formation of values and traits that I believe are the pillars to success. The mission of DESTINY SHAPERS MENTORING PROGRAME is to connect with youth, inspire them to care about their personal success, and to motivate youth to care for others. My goal is to ignite youth with the utmost feelings of love, acceptance and greatness! As an enthusiastic and natural leader, I have a knack for connecting with the young people. Since childhood, I possessed an innate desire to up-build and give to others. I have persevered from personal life lessons and I am inspired to equip youth today with the wisdom to do the same. I speak at the local schools to motivate young people to care about their personal and communal well-being. I fuel my passion through the partnership with organizations such as,DSQUARE VENTURES, DRAWING DREAMS INNITIATIVE, THE KENYA INSTITUTE OF MANAGEMENT , MT.KENYA BAPTIST CHURCH AMONG OTHERs AND Through MY JOB ( AS the YOUTH DIRECTOR at MKBC) and current philanthropic efforts, I strive to intensify this effort.



“As an individual, that Life has given a second chance I am propelled by a desire to better my life and that of as many people (youth) as possible so that when the sun sets on my side I will be glad that I have done my best to the glory of God And MY SERVICE TO THE MAN KIND”

PLEASE Join DESTINY SHAPERS MENTORING PROGRAME Movement and show young people that we care about their well-being!

GRIEF IS NOT A STRAIGHT LINE. IT CAN BE ZIGZAG, WAVY AND MESSY. ‎Grief isn’t linear.‎When someone else dies, it can unex...
13/05/2026

GRIEF IS NOT A STRAIGHT LINE.
IT CAN BE ZIGZAG, WAVY AND MESSY.

‎Grief isn’t linear.

‎When someone else dies, it can unexpectedly reignite or deepen your own grief even if your loss happened long ago or feels unrelated.

‎Psychology explains this through the idea of grief triggers and secondary losses.

‎How this happens

‎1. Death acts as a griattachment.

‎Hearing about or witnessing another person’s death can activate memories, emotions, and bodily responses tied to your own loss. Triggers don’t mean you’re “back to square one”; they reflect that grief is stored in memory and can resurface when something reminds your brain of loss or attachment.

‎2. Grief reopens unfinished emotional work.

‎Grief isn’t linear. Your brain continues learning how to live in a world without the person you lost. New losses or reminders of loss can bring back intense feelings because the attachment system is reactivated, not because you’re failing to cope.


‎3. It highlights secondary losses.

‎Another person’s death can remind you not only of who you lost, but of everything that changed afterward identity, routines, future plans, financial stability, or social connections.

‎These “secondary losses” compound grief and often surface later or unexpectedly

‎4. It confronts our sense of vulnerability.

‎Each death reminds us emotionally, not just intellectually that loss can happen again. This can stir fear, sadness, or anxiety about future losses, deepening your current emotional response

‎5. It can awaken grief even without a direct relationship.

‎People sometimes grieve the death of acquaintances, public figures, or community members because it symbolizes universal themes: mortality, love, endings, or unresolved personal losses. This is a normal psychological response, not an overreaction

‎What this means for you

‎- Your reaction is normal and human.
‎- Grief returning doesn’t erase healing—it reflects ongoing adaptation.
‎- Strong feelings often point to unmet needs for acknowledgment, connection, or rest, not weakness.

‎You’re not alone in this experience.

WHEN PEOPLE CLOSE TO US CAUSES US, DEEPEST PAIN! ‎When the people causing you the deepest mental pain are your own famil...
04/05/2026

WHEN PEOPLE CLOSE TO US CAUSES US, DEEPEST PAIN!

‎When the people causing you the deepest mental pain are your own family, the hurt can be silent—but heavy.

‎Family can harm your mental health in ways that aren’t always obvious, such as:

‎• Constant criticism or comparison
‎• Emotional manipulation or guilt-tripping
‎• Dismissing your feelings (“you’re too sensitive”)
‎• Lack of boundaries or respect for your choices
‎• Gaslighting or denying your lived experiences
‎• Unrealistic expectations and pressure
‎• Using control instead of communication
‎• Emotional neglect or conditional love

‎Here’s an important truth: protecting your mental health is not a betrayal it’s a responsibility.

‎What you can do to protect your mental health:

‎• Set clear and firm boundaries
‎• Limit access to people who constantly drain you
‎• Stop explaining yourself to those who refuse to understand
‎• Choose peace over proving a point
‎• Prioritize rest, reflection, and self‑care
‎• Seek support outside the family (friends, therapy, safe spaces)
‎• Accept that distance can be healthy
‎• Remind yourself: You are allowed to choose yourself

‎You can love your family and still set boundaries.

‎You can respect them and still choose your peace.

‎You can acknowledge the pain without carrying it forever.

‎🧠 This Mental Health Awareness Month, remember:

‎Your mental health starts with you.
‎Healing happens at an individual level.
‎Choosing yourself is strength—not selfishness.

‎Take care of your mind. It matters. 💚



‎The Impact of Drugs and Substance Abuse on Mental Health: ‎‎A Call to Action This Mental Health Awareness Month‎‎Mental...
04/05/2026

‎The Impact of Drugs and Substance Abuse on Mental Health:

‎A Call to Action This Mental Health Awareness Month

‎Mental health is a vital pillar of overall well-being, shaping how we think, feel, and act in daily life. As we mark Mental Health Awareness Month, it is important to confront one of the most persistent and damaging challenges to mental wellness: drugs and substance abuse. For many individuals especially young peoplesubstance use does not exist in isolation. It closely interacts with mental health, often worsening existing conditions, triggering new disorders, and creating a harmful cycle that is difficult to escape.

‎ How Drugs and Substances Affect Mental Health

‎Drugs and substances such as alcohol, cannabis, stimulants, opioids, and illicit drugs directly interfere with brain chemistry. The brain relies on a delicate balance of neurotransmitters to regulate mood, concentration, sleep, and emotions. When substances are introduced, this balance is disrupted.

‎In the short term, some substances may appear to offer relief—temporary calm, confidence, or escape from stress. However, these effects are misleading. Over time, substance use alters how the brain functions, reducing its ability to regulate emotions naturally. This can lead to increased anxiety, mood swings, paranoia, depression, and difficulty concentrating.

‎Escalation of Mental Health Symptoms

‎One of the most dangerous aspects of substance abuse is its tendency to escalate existing mental health symptoms. For individuals already living with conditions such as depression, anxiety disorders, bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia, substance use often intensifies symptoms rather than easing them.

‎- Depression can deepen, increasing feelings of hopelessness and suicidal thoughts.

‎- Anxiety disorders may worsen, leading to panic attacks, restlessness, and chronic fear.

‎- Psychotic disorders can be aggravated, with substances triggering hallucinations, delusions, or episodes of psychosis.

‎- Sleep disorders become more severe, further weakening emotional resilience.

‎This escalation creates a vicious cycle: worsening mental health leads to more substance use as a coping mechanism, which in turn causes further psychological harm.

‎ Addiction and Emotional Well-being

‎Substance abuse also increases the risk of addiction, which is itself a mental health disorder. Addiction affects judgment, impulse control, and decision-making, often leading individuals to prioritize substance use over relationships, education, work, and self-care.

‎As addiction develops, many people experience shame, guilt, isolation, and low self-esteem. These emotional burdens further deteriorate mental health and make it harder to seek help. For young people, addiction can interrupt critical stages of emotional and cognitive development, with long-lasting consequences.

‎The Impact on Young People

‎Young people are particularly vulnerable. Peer pressure, curiosity, unemployment, academic stress, and social challenges can push adolescents and young adults toward substance use. At this stage of life, the brain is still developing, making it more susceptible to long-term damage from drugs and alcohol.

‎Substance abuse among young people is strongly linked to poor academic performance, risky behavior, conflict with family, and increased rates of mental health crises. What begins as experimentation can quickly turn into dependence, anxiety, or depression—stealing potential and limiting future opportunities.

‎A Call to Keep Off Drugs and Substances

‎This Mental Health Awareness Month, I call upon young people to keep off drugs and substances that add no value to their lives. True growth, confidence, and happiness are not found in intoxication, but in healthy choices that strengthen the mind and body.

‎Choosing a drug-free life means:

‎- Protecting your mental health and emotional stability .

‎- Building resilience to cope with stress and challenges .

‎- Preserving your dreams, talents, and future opportunities.

‎- Creating meaningful relationships based on clarity and trust

‎ Promoting Healthier Alternatives

‎Instead of turning to substances, young people should be encouraged to adopt positive coping strategies such as physical activity, creative expression, open conversations, spiritual growth, and seeking professional support when needed. Communities, families, schools, and leaders all have a role to play in providing safe spaces, mentorship, and accurate information about mental health and substance abuse.

‎Conclusion

‎Drugs and substance abuse pose a serious threat to mental health, especially by escalating symptoms and trapping individuals in cycles of dependence and distress. Awareness is the first step, but action must follow. This Mental Health Awareness Month, let us speak openly, support one another, and empower young people to make choices that truly add value to their lives.

Happy Labour Day 2026.Whatever You do to put Bread 🍞🥖 on Your table May God Bless the Work of your hands.
30/04/2026

Happy Labour Day 2026.

Whatever You do to put Bread 🍞🥖 on Your table May God Bless the Work of your hands.

According to the Retirement Benefits Authority, 82% of retirees have dependents, with the majority aged 18-24 and 25 and...
19/04/2026

According to the Retirement Benefits Authority, 82% of retirees have dependents, with the majority aged 18-24 and 25 and above.

This shows that retirement planning isn’t just about securing your own future; it often involves providing for others too.

To enjoy stress-free golden years, here’s what you need to factor in:

✔ Your Monthly Needs – Calculate how much you need to live comfortably post-retirement.

✔ Dependent Support – If you intend to support children or grandchildren, estimate their financial needs and consider structured options like a trust fund.

✔ Post-Retirement Income – Planning to start a business? Ensure you have the capital and strategy in place.

✔ Estate & Health Planning – Your will, estate, health insurance, and life cover should be well-organized to avoid financial strain.

✔ Financial Education for the Next Generation – The best gift you can give your children isn’t money, it’s financial independence. Equip them with financial literacy so they won’t have to rely on you. Being financially conversant will also help them multiply and grow what they receive from you.

Living paycheck to paycheck can feel like you’re running in circles, but breaking the cycle starts with small, actionabl...
18/04/2026

Living paycheck to paycheck can feel like you’re running in circles, but breaking the cycle starts with small, actionable steps:

1️⃣ Track your expenses: Knowledge is power. Identify where your money is going.
2️⃣ Start an emergency fund: Even KES 500 a week adds up over time. Building a buffer means you’re not relying on your next paycheck to cover unexpected expenses.
3️⃣ Automate savings: Set it and forget it. Make saving a priority by automating transfers to a separate account or money market fund.
4️⃣ Focus on needs vs. wants: Before buying, ask yourself: “Is this necessary, or can it wait?”

Little by little, you’ll create room to breathe financially.

‎FINANCIAL PLANNING 101 ‎‎When we create value,  we are rewarded by an income. It could be through employment or busines...
16/04/2026

‎FINANCIAL PLANNING 101

‎When we create value, we are rewarded by an income. It could be through employment or business. This income becomes like a life partner constantly walking with you side by side as you live your life.

‎There are several reasons why you need to set aside part of your income regularly.

‎1️⃣An emergency can arise that requires financial intervention eg your car or phone breaks down and you need to fix it. Sometimes it could be a job loss.

‎2️⃣As you grow older, your human capital becomes lower and you need your financial capital to be strong enough to take care of you in your older days. The truth is that we are all getting old and retirement planning becomes very important. 83% of Kenyans are not prepared for this reality.

‎3️⃣Over time the value of goods and services go up. This is loosely called inflation eg a loaf of bread would cost ksh 20 in 2004 and the same goes for ksh 50 now. This means that you need to invest your income in financial vehicles that give you returns above the inflation rate so that you can be able to maintain and sustain your lifestyle & those of your loved ones in future.

‎4️⃣Personal goals eg home ownership, starting a business etc

‎5️⃣Living within your means so that you dont fall into a debt trap

‎6️⃣Leaving a legacy eg using money to give back to the society and do things that you really love.

‎“To become financially independent you must turn part of your income into capital; turn capital into enterprise; turn enterprise into profit; turn profit into investment; and turn investment into financial independence.” –Jim Rohn

‎Via abojani



Dear 💕 PARENT YOUR CHILD IS CRYING FOR YOUR ATTENTION! HANDLE IT NOW OR YOU WILL CRY 😭 IN THE FUTURE. ‎LET'S TALK ABOUT ...
15/04/2026

Dear 💕 PARENT YOUR CHILD IS CRYING FOR YOUR ATTENTION!

HANDLE IT NOW OR YOU WILL CRY 😭 IN THE FUTURE.


LET'S TALK ABOUT "‎Affluent Neglect": When Provision Replaces Presence!

‎Affluent neglect is a quiet but powerful form of neglect that often goes unnoticed. It happens in homes where children have everything money can buy good schools, nice clothes, gadgets, opportunities—but lack what they need most: emotional presence, connection, and guidance from their caregivers.

‎The Myth: “My Child Has Everything”

‎Many parents believe that providing financially is the ultimate proof of love. While provision is important, money does not replace emotional availability. A child can grow up in comfort and still feel unseen, unheard, and emotionally abandoned.

‎Affluent neglect isn’t about poverty. It’s about absence.

‎Impact During Childhood

‎In childhood, emotional neglect often shows up as:

‎- Feeling invisible or unimportant
‎- Struggling to express emotions
‎- Seeking validation through performance or perfection
‎- Difficulty forming secure attachments

‎Children may appear “fine” because they are well-behaved or independent, but often this independence is learned out of necessity, not maturity.

‎Impact During Teenagehood

‎Teenage years intensify the effects:

‎- Rebellion or risky behavior as a cry for attention
‎- Emotional withdrawal or numbness
‎- Low self-worth despite achievements
‎- Turning to peers, substances, or the internet for comfort

‎When teens don’t feel emotionally safe at home, they look elsewhere—sometimes at great cost.

‎Impact in Adulthood.

‎Unaddressed affluent neglect doesn’t disappear with age. In adulthood, it may lead to:

‎- Difficulty with intimacy and trust
‎- Chronic feelings of emptiness
‎- Overworking to feel worthy
‎- Struggles with identity and emotional regulation

‎Many adults from affluent yet emotionally distant homes say:

‎“I had everything… except someone who really knew me.”

‎The Importance of Emotional Presence
‎Being blessed financially is not wrong. Success is not the problem.
‎Emotional absence is.

‎Children need:

‎- Time, not just treats
‎- Conversations, not just instructions
‎- Validation, not just discipline
‎- Presence, not just provision

‎Five minutes of genuine attention can mean more than expensive gifts.

‎A Gentle Reminder

‎As you build wealth, careers, and legacies don’t outsource your child’s emotional needs. Nannies, schools, and devices can assist, but they cannot replace you.

‎Your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.
‎They need an emotionally available one.








Dear 💕 Employers Employees don’t leave only because of money—they leave when they feel undervalued or unappreciated.Reta...
11/04/2026

Dear 💕 Employers

Employees don’t leave only because of money—they leave when they feel undervalued or unappreciated.

Retaining good employees isn’t just about increasing their pay; it requires recognition, growth opportunities, and proactive leadership.

Take care of your best employees— before they decide to leave you.

‎‎MENTAL HEALTH AND SUBSTANCE ABUSE.  ‎Mental health is a real and growing concern in our society today.‎‎It can arise f...
10/04/2026


‎MENTAL HEALTH AND SUBSTANCE ABUSE.

Mental health is a real and growing concern in our society today.

‎It can arise from factors beyond our control, such as genetic predisposition, as well as from situations we can manage through timely intervention and healthy choices.

‎One major concern among young people is the increasing use of drugs and other substances. Substance use does not only worsen the symptoms of mental health conditions—it also accelerates their effects and makes recovery more difficult.

‎When someone is diagnosed with a mental health condition, healthcare practitioners may recommend lifestyle changes. These often include avoiding drugs and harmful substances.

‎ Adhering to this guidance is not punishment—it is protection. It is a vital step toward healing and stability.

‎Through years of practice, we have witnessed families suffer deeply when these recommendations are ignored.

‎ Mental health challenges affect spouses, children, and close family members in profound ways. This is not just a personal struggle—it is a family and community issue.

‎Just like physical illness impacts everyone around the patient, mental health conditions silently affect entire families.

‎ Many are suffering quietly.

‎Let’s talk openly.
‎Let’s seek help early.
‎Let’s support healthier choices.

‎Mental health matters—and so do the people around us.

03/04/2026

Corporate life Is not fair. Here’s how to still win

1. Stop expecting recognition.
2. Promote your own work.
3. Build strategic relationships.
4. Deliver results that matter.
5. Understand power dynamics.
6. Stay emotionally disciplined.
7. Document everything.
8. Be visible to decision makers.
9. Learn how influence works.
10.Play the long game.

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