Cometogether Widows and Orphans Organization

Cometogether Widows and Orphans Organization COMETOGETHER WIDOWS AND ORPHANS ORGANIZATION (CTWOO) Started as a community based organization and later registered as an NGO.
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Come Together Widows and Orphans Organization (CTWOO) is a non-profit making Non-Governmental Organization (NGO) founded by Dianah Kamande, a young widow and a survivor of Gender Based Violence whose experiences gave birth to the idea of creating an NGO The organization has been working officially with widows since 2013 in Kenya, Widows have been targets of Sexual gender based violence, harmful c

ultures and traditions, property loss and denial by in-laws, emotional and psychological torture, patriarchy ,discrimination, stigma and false accusations CTWOO was founded by Dianah Kamande, the idea to help widows came to her when she became a widow as a result of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. She found out that widows and SURVIVORS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE were the most outstanding marginalized group of women that needed all kind of support (social, emotional, psychological, physical, spiritual and financial)

She introduced a slogan “Widows Rights Are Also Human Rights”, She started championing for rights of widows and survivors of Gender Based Violence. She later on formed a widows’ COMMUNITY BASED ORGANIZATION at first to address widows’ issues and later when the widows issues increased in the country she decided to register a Non-Governmental Organization, which included emotional and psychological support, financial support especially for the widows who were poor and couldn’t afford fees for their children. To help them also cater for their basic needs she fundraised to help them start greengroceries, tailoring and encouraged they join adult education. At this time she would support the widows by giving food donations and pay for some of their children’s school fees through raising her voice on their behalf on social media, print media, radio and Television. She would also empower them by giving them motivational talk to help them recollect themselves from loss of their spouses and move on with their widowhood life. Dianah continued being vocal and a lot of widows, survivors of domestic violence and orphans continued to reach her and she registered CTWOO as an International organization this was a good step as her desire to serve all Kenyan widows, survivors of violence and orphans at a National and International level. The founder then decided to have a team of like-minded individuals who would help in her mission of reaching out to widows. As COMETOGETHER WIDOWS AND ORPHANS ORGANIZATION, we have been able to work with widows not only empowering widows but also sourcing for people to train widows all over the country on group formations, its importance and table banking. The activities have been very successful helping many widows start Small Business Enterprises (SMEs) e.g. Groceries,Tailoring, Retail shops etc. which help them sustain their livelihoods and gives them a source of income to cater for their needs. Other projects include helping them start projects such as catering and event organization businesses, agricultural farming, poultry and dairy farming among others. Through 30% procurement (AGPO) widows are able to apply for available Government tenders and supply the needed items and make some profit. This has helped us reach more widows who have seen a change in their lives both socially and economically

Our greatest desire is to create a pillar of hope and empowerment for all the widows in Kenya and beyond but with a bigger focus on the poor and neglected widows. We want to help all widows live fulfilled lives by empowering them socially, economically, emotionally and spiritually, through establishment of productive networking structures.

What advice would you give to someone newly widowed?Being widowed is not the end of your story it is the beginning of a ...
20/08/2026

What advice would you give to someone newly widowed?

Being widowed is not the end of your story it is the beginning of a new chapter. Your words of advice can become a source of strength and encouragement to someone who is just starting this journey. Since you have discovered much along the way, what advice would you share with someone newly widowed?

🌅 From Loss to Courage 🌅Life may have tested you in ways you never imagined, but your journey did not end with loss — it...
14/08/2026

🌅 From Loss to Courage 🌅

Life may have tested you in ways you never imagined, but your journey did not end with loss — it became a story of courage, strength, and resilience.
Every day you rise is proof of the light within you. Your ability to stand, to keep moving forward, and to shine through challenges inspires others to find their own strength.

At Come Together Widows and Orphans Organization (CTWOO), we stand beside you as you embrace this new chapter. Together, we believe in hope, in healing, and in the power of a community that uplifts one another.

✨ Keep standing. Keep shining. The world needs your light. ✨

📞 Contact us: 0702577477 / 0789577476
🌐 Visit: cometogewoo.org

Who Advocates for Her?”Who stands up when a widow is denied her inheritance?Who speaks out when tradition silences her v...
10/08/2026

Who Advocates for Her?”
Who stands up when a widow is denied her inheritance?
Who speaks out when tradition silences her voice?
Who fights when policy forgets her existence?

At Come Together Widows and Orphans Organization, we are asking the uncomfortable questions because comfort never changed systems. We will continue to advocate for Widows Rights, challenge the systems, and demand justice because we understand that true change begins when silence ends and action begins.




Her voice was never lost just unheard.Now, she speaks.And the world must listen.Widows have a voice.Let’s make space for...
05/08/2026

Her voice was never lost just unheard.
Now, she speaks.
And the world must listen.
Widows have a voice.
Let’s make space for it.
Let’s end the silence together.




WIDOWED PERSONS' RIGHTS IN KENYA 🇰🇪⚖️Losing a spouse is painful enough. The law says you should NOT lose your dignity, p...
25/07/2026

WIDOWED PERSONS' RIGHTS IN KENYA 🇰🇪⚖️

Losing a spouse is painful enough. The law says you should NOT lose your dignity, property, or children too.

Here are your key legal rights protected by the Constitution of Kenya 2010:

1. PROPERTY & INHERITANCE RIGHTS

Protected by: Law of Succession Act Cap 160 + Constitution Art 40 + Matrimonial Property Act 2013

- Right to matrimonial home - You cannot be chased out. The home is protected whether in his/her name or jointly owned
- Right to inherit - If there’s NO will:
- Spouse gets 20% of the estate + life interest in the matrimonial home
- Children get 75%
- Parents/dependents get 5%
- Right to jointly owned property - Land, cars, business, bank accounts bought during marriage belong to BOTH. You get your 50% first, then share the rest
- Right NOT to be disinherited - Even with a will, courts can set it aside if it leaves spouse/children with nothing

2. PROTECTION FROM HARMFUL CULTURAL PRACTICES

Protected by: Constitution Art 44 + HIV Prevention & Control Act 2009

- NO forced widow cleansing
- NO forced wife/husband inheritance
- NO property grabbing by in-laws or relatives
- NO eviction* from matrimonial home
- NO shaving, seclusion, or rituals can be forced on you

These are illegal. You can report to police, chief, or FIDA.

3. CHILDREN & CUSTODY RIGHTS

Protected by: Children Act 2022 + Constitution Art 53

- Right to custody- Being widowed is NOT a reason to deny you custody. "Best interest of the child" comes first
- Right to child support- Children are entitled to maintenance from the estate
- Right to make decisions - School, health, religion for the children

4. ECONOMIC & SOCIAL RIGHTS

- Right to access bank accounts, NHIF, insurance, pension - After getting Letters of Administration from court
- Right to work and do business - No one can stop you
- Right to join chamas, get loans, own property in your own name
- Right to social protection - You can apply for government cash transfer programs for Orphans & Vulnerable Households through County Social Services

5.DIGNITY & EQUALITY RIGHTS

Protected by: Constitution Art 27 + Art 28

- Right to equal treatment- No discrimination because you are widowed
- Right to human dignity- No insults, stigma, "you are cursed" treatment
-Right to remarry - If and when YOU choose

IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS TO SECURE ASAP:

1. Death Certificate - From Civil Registration
2. Marriage Certificate - Proof of marriage
3. Title Deeds, Logbooks, Bank details
4. Letters of Administration- From High Court. This lets you legally access property

We were honored to take part in an engaging capacity-building forum for widow leaders from Kajiado West Constituency in ...
24/07/2026

We were honored to take part in an engaging capacity-building forum for widow leaders from Kajiado West Constituency in Kiserian, Kajiado County. The forum provided a valuable opportunity to strengthen leadership skills, promote collaboration, and equip participants with practical knowledge to better serve and support widows within their communities.

The discussions explored the qualities of effective leadership and the stages of group development, empowering widow leaders to build cohesive, resilient, and sustainable widow support groups.

Participants also engaged in meaningful conversations on land rights and the legal framework that safeguards the rights of widows, highlighting the importance of legal awareness in preventing property dispossession and ensuring access to justice.

As widow leaders become more informed and confident, they are better positioned to educate others, advocate for justice, and inspire lasting change within their communities.








Justice begins when every widow knows her rights and has the confidence to claim them. It calls for laws that protect, i...
24/07/2026

Justice begins when every widow knows her rights and has the confidence to claim them. It calls for laws that protect, institutions that uphold fairness, and communities that stand against discrimination while promoting equality and dignity for all.

We brought together widows, legal experts, partners, and stakeholders during our Post-International Widows Day Commemoration in Mombasa County to spark conversations on justice and legal protection for widowed persons. This created a safe and empowering space for widows to learn about their rights, share their experiences, seek legal guidance, and strengthen their confidence to pursue justice without fear.

We believe that every widow deserves to be heard. Every widow deserves to be protected. Every widow deserves equal justice under the law.

We continue to advocate for a future where justice is accessible, rights are respected, and no widow is left behind.





23/07/2026

Kajiado West Widow Leaders!

Widowhood in Kenya comes with grief and myths, culture, and law all mixed together. Let’s break it down so it stops feel...
16/07/2026

Widowhood in Kenya comes with grief and myths, culture, and law all mixed together. Let’s break it down so it stops feeling like a trap.

THE MYTHS vs THE TRUTH

Myth/Culture, you must be cleansed/inherited
The triuth is no law forces this. The HIV Prevention & Control Act 2009 makes forced wife inheritance illegal. You have a right to say NO.

A widow can’t own property. This is a lie, The Law of Succession Act + Constitution 2010 Article 27 protects you. You CAN inherit matrimonial property, land, and bank accounts.

Shaving the head, 40 days seclusion. These are cultural practices, not legal requirements.

Children belong to the husband’s family. It is a lie Children belong to BOTH parents. The Children Act 2022 protects your custody rights.

Widows are cursed/they carry bad luck. This is stigma, not truth. You are not a curse. You are a person who lost someone you loved

Widowhood is not final.🤍I know it can _feel_ final. Like the chapter with your person ended, and that’s the whole book. ...
15/07/2026

Widowhood is not final.🤍

I know it can _feel_ final. Like the chapter with your person ended, and that’s the whole book.

But here’s the truth:

1. The marriage ended. Your life didn’t

Widowhood is a season, not your whole identity.
You are still: a child of GOD, a parent, a professional, a friend, a dreamer.
The title "widow/widower" describes what happened to you. It does NOT define who you are.

2. The pain is real, but it’s not permanent.
Grief comes in waves. Some days feel final. Other days you’ll laugh again, build again, hope again.
GOD doesn’t waste pain. He can turn this season into purpose, strength, and a testimony that helps others.

3. GOD specializes in "not final" stories.
- Ruth was widowed young. It was not final. She became part of JESUS’ lineage.
- Hannah thought barrenness was final. GOD gave her Samuel.
-JESUS on the cross looked final. Sunday came.

"Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning," (Psalm 30:5)

What is final:
1. The life you had with your spouse as you knew it
2. The grief of that specific loss

What is NOT final:

1. Your purpose
2. Your joy
3. Your future
4. GOD'S plan for you
5. Love, family, peace, and new beginnings - in whatever form GOD brings them

Widowhood changes you. It doesn’t end you.

You’re in a battle right now. And remember: *The battle belongs to GOD. Victory belongs to us.*

You’re allowed to mourn. You’re also allowed to hope again. Both can be true.

If you’re going through this right now, you’re not alone.

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