15/09/2026
Her husband wasn’t a cat person. He now buys Phoenix’s food. 🧡
But this family’s story began with another much-loved cat.
In 2020, Ruth adopted Noel, an adult cat, from Nairobi Feline Sanctuary. When Noel died following a short illness, we reached out to ask whether she would consider adopting a kitten.
Ruth was hesitant, having always been drawn to adult cats. Her son was thrilled at the idea, though, and they welcomed the kitten home and named him Phoenix.
Later, when Ruth met her husband, she told him from the beginning that she had a cat and would not be giving him away. Phoenix was part of the family. In time, her husband took on the job of buying his food.
This year, Ruth became pregnant. She told us she had been advised to give Phoenix away because of the risk of toxoplasmosis. Concerned, she contacted us, and we agreed to provide a temporary home for him during her pregnancy.
But the thought of nine months apart weighed on her.
“Every time I looked at him, I felt like I was giving him up and abandoning him, and all he had known was us.”
Ruth had noticed Phoenix becoming unusually clingy before she knew she was pregnant. Later, when she was diagnosed with hyperemesis gravidarum, which causes severe nausea and vomiting, he remained close.
While her husband went to work and her son went to school, Phoenix would lie beside her in bed and follow her around the house.
“How then could I give him up for nine months?” she asked herself.
She decided to keep him home.
“We are almost due and he is still here with us, and I am glad I made that decision.” 🧡
For other families facing this question: pregnancy does not automatically require giving up your cat. Toxoplasmosis can pose serious risks during pregnancy, but there are practical ways to reduce exposure:
🐾 Have someone else clean the litter tray daily. If that is not possible, wear disposable gloves and wash your hands thoroughly afterwards.
🐾 Keep your cat indoors and avoid feeding raw or undercooked meat.
🐾 Wash fruit and vegetables thoroughly, practise good food hygiene, and wear gloves when gardening.
🐾 Discuss your individual risks and precautions with your antenatal clinician.
At NFS, helping animals also means helping families access reliable information and support to care for them through life’s changes.
Thank you, Ruth, for sharing your story. We wish your family well as you prepare to welcome your baby.
Please share this with a family who may find it helpful. 🐾