14/02/2026
Paul Oriaro – A Brother I Never Prepared to Bury
Oriaro
My heart is heavy as I write this.
My first ever parish assignment outside our home parish Kapiyo, where I was born in this calling, was St. Mark’s Barkanyango Parish. And the way it happened is a story I can never forget.
My call has always been mostly, but not limited to youth ministry. During that time, the youth chairman of St. Peter Chianda Parish, Okella Church died in a road accident. By then I was deeply serving in youth ministry at Kapiyo. One of our youths, Mary Abagi, was related to him and she invited us to go and help in the night vigil — another area I am always proud to serve.
I remember very well — I did not have a single cent on me. Not even fare. My nephew Victor Meny came from his work at Utonga Beach and gave me 200 shillings. Victor, that 200 has multiplied into the blessings I carry today. May God bless you.
That night vigil we had Steve the pianist and Walter Adeya. We did not go there to impress anyone, but we praised God until that land felt the fire of worship. We gave it our best. That is where Rev. Paul Oginga the then vicar of Barkanyango noticed me. He took my number, and that is how I got the opportunity to serve with him at Barkanyango.
Barkanyango made me. Barkanyango shaped me. Barkanyango has been a blessing to me.
While serving there, Omondi, the eldest son of Mwalimu Solomon Oriaro, passed on. That was the first funeral I ever conducted practically — from blessing the grave, consoling the family, to the burial itself. I was young in ministry, but I gave it my all. I believe I did it well.
That is when Hellen Norah Oriaro noticed me. Later, Paul noticed me. Edwin noticed me.
Hellen Norah Oriaro, Paul Oriaro, and Edwin Oriaro — the three siblings became my support system. You stood with me when I was still growing. You encouraged me. You believed in me. Adhiambo Nyar Mwalimu, what you have done for me is priceless. Edwin, your steady presence has never gone unnoticed. Paul, your quiet support spoke louder than many words.
Paul was not just an elder brother in that family. He was a pillar. A man who would check on me. A man who, if you sent a text, he would respond. If you needed something, he would not complicate it. He simply acted.
Paul was one of the supporters of Fromthepulpit. He believed in the vision. He stood with us quietly but faithfully. Some people support with noise. Others support with heart. Paul supported with heart.
Just last year, when you lost your mum, I wrote the kind words that were too many I thought you won't read. You responded, Paul. Today it is you. When I received the news of your death, I was shocked. I thought I was dreaming. I wanted it to be a mistake. But it is reality. And I am hurt to the brim.
Hellen, losing an elder brother is not a small thing. It is losing a protector, a guide, a family pillar.
Edwin, losing a brother leaves a silence that words cannot fill. As for me, I have lost a supporter and a brother in ministry.
Paul has left a vacuum that no one will fill the same way.
Paul, I do not know how to eulogise you perfectly. I only know how to say thank you.
Thank you for believing in me.
Thank you for supporting Fromthepulpit.
Thank you for being a brother.
Rest well, Paul Oriaro.
— Ev. Timothy Omondo Meny