20/10/2026
Around 18 months ago, I joined the Japan field’s Third Culture Kids (TCK) Advisors team. We aim to encourage and support missionary families as they raise their children, with all the blessings and challenges that cross-cultural missionary life brings.
Until I joined this team, my only experience of TCK support was raising my own children. The only training I’d receive was the support and encouragement of the TCK advisors supporting my family.
But since taking on this role, I have learned much from my fellow team members. They’ve come alongside me and helped me to understand, learn, and grow as I seek to serve our missionary families. A few months ago I had the opportunity to observe a family debriefing session. I observed my team leader help a missionary family prepare for their upcoming home assignment. It was an eye-opening experience to see her create a safe space where each family member could openly share their experiences, joys, and struggles.
I have also been receiving formal training to learn more about understanding and debriefing missionary kids and their families. I am learning how to help them prepare for and work through the many stresses and emotional challenges that come as part of missionary life.
Being asked to serve in this role was daunting, but I am growing through the support and guidance of my teammates and leaders, and through the formal training I can receive. I still have much to learn, but the Lord is faithfully providing all I need to take on the task he has given me.
By Emily, an OMF missionary
Read the blog post here: https://omf.org/learning-to-walk-alongside-tck-families/