20/08/2026
Embrace Dignity and The Coalition Against Trafficking in Women mourn the loss of the extraordinary Nomonde Mihlali (“Mickey”) Meji, a visionary human rights leader whose efforts to secure equality for women and girls extended far beyond her homeland of South Africa. A survivor of the prostitution system, Mickey was a fearless advocate who never shied away from speaking truth to power - whether at the highest levels of the South African government or the United Nations - about the brutality of the s*x trade and the urgency to end it. Mickey helped people recognize that the prostitution system is an outgrowth of South Africa’s colonial past and apartheid, as well as a manifestation of inequality and misogyny.
Mickey was a force in the survivor-led movement in South Africa, joining Embrace Dignity in urging the South African government to pass the Sankara Equality Law, a framework that ends the criminalization of women in prostitution, offering them pathways out of the s*x trade, and holding all exploiters – including s*x buyers – accountable for the devastating harm they cause. Mickey believed that "Women in prostitution do not wake up one day and “choose” to be prostituted. Prostitution is chosen for them by our colonial past and apartheid, persistent inequalities, poverty, past s*xual and physical abuse, the pimps who take advantage of our vulnerabilities and the men who buy us in prostitution."
Throughout her many years of tireless advocacy, Mickey never lost sight of her foundational dream for women in prostitution and her survivor sisters: in her words, “…a life free from oppression, patriarchy, and economic inequalities. A life where they have access to a wider array of dignified and decent employment options, where they can participate as citizens...South Africa cannot become a country where prostitution is what is left for us when everything else is taken away. Black women and girls deserve justice and equality, not the s*x trade.”
The loss of Mickey to her three children, her family, her friends, and the global movement to end the s*x trade and s*xual exploitation is immeasurable. We will continue the fight in her memory, and on behalf of all survivors around the world who Mickey loved so dearly and fought for so fiercely.