20/06/2026
6 Signs You Grew Up in a Dysfunctional Family
Some families do not feel safe or comforting. They leave you constantly worried about saying or doing the wrong thing
You may have grown up believing that control was care, criticism was normal, and staying quiet was the safest option
No one should never have to manage a another family member's anger, earn love through obedience, or carry burdens that do not belong to them
If this feels familiar, remember: what felt normal was not healthy.
Healing begins when you stop calling it normal
Ekta Viiveck Verma