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25/05/2026

#17795

"28M, Married last year. Just need to vent/get some perspective. Bought my dream car recently on EMI as the family grown big and I’m so proud of it, but the seating situation is driving me insane.

Whenever my parents rides with us, I want my dad in the front seat out of respect and comfort. But my wife gets super possessive over the passenger seat and expects my dad to sit in the back. It feels like a constant tug-of-war between my partner and my parent. It’s making me feel resentful, and I hate that a milestone like buying a car is causing this much petty drama. Anyone else dealt with this? How do you get your spouse to understand?

I have seen in such situations since late teenage or early 20s where my cousins and their partners were accomodative in such situation. someone grown up seeing this, I feel this embrassing for me.

Even if my parents are ok with it, I feel they should not think I am kind of hen-pecked(In tamil we say pondatti munthanaiye pudichite poran) . How to deal this.

Note: We live seperately only this is just happening when we travel occassionaly together or visiting home town."

-Guy

25/05/2026

#17794

40F, mother of two boys. First one is 15 and second one is 12. I just told my two sons, your life is your wish and enjoy your life under good habits, but if anyone of you involve in anything against women, any girl or any child in your life which hurts them or anything illegal against women, at the moment I or your father gets the information, we will ki*l you and I mean it. No mercy if any women gets affected physically based on your mistakes and bad intentions. We made it as promise.

Sometimes harsh parenting is required.

-Girl

25/05/2026

#17793

June 2nd ku Apram mattum virchaga raasi ku nalladhu nadakalla na, gaali da Neenga. Podhum da 15 years struggle. Ellarum orey date solreenga. Paapom. Ella virchaga raasi ya yum planet kadathi vera nalla planet ku anupidunga please. Earth is not good place for virchagam so far.

-Guy

25/05/2026

#17792

"28F | Long Post Alert

I got married 8 years ago after a 4-years of love. It was a love come arrange marriage. I came from a well-settled family, while his background was financially very different. My parents initially did not agree because he didn’t have a stable job, but I loved him deeply and convinced them somehow.

Looking back now, I feel like I ignored many red flags because I thought love alone was enough.

Even before marriage, he once took my jewellery saying he would pledge and return it, but later admitted he had sold it. I was heartbroken, but I forgave him.

After marriage, things slowly became worse. For almost 2–3 years, he didn’t work, and I managed the entire family with my salary. Later, even after he got a basic job, most responsibilities still remained on me. He was always more focused on friends, hobbies, outings, and mobile scrolling than building a stable life together.

There was never emotional support either. No conversations about our future, no husband-wife bonding, no effort to understand me or even ask how my day was. Every good occasion somehow ended in fights.

Financially too, I kept sacrificing everything. He took loans from multiple apps, and recovery calls started reaching me and my family. I cleared all those debts by taking personal loans myself. Every few months, there would be another “business idea” needing lakhs of rupees, and somehow I kept arranging money hoping things would improve.

Recently again, I arranged around 3 lakhs for him, but the same toxic behavior repeated — fights, dominance, disrespect, and emotional pressure. One day it became too much, and I finally left the house for my own mental peace.

What hurts the most is that after everything I’ve done for him and his family, not one person properly called or checked on me after I left.

And still… a part of me loves him.

I genuinely don’t know anymore if he loved me for who I am or only for the support and stability I provided. I don’t know whether people like this really change or whether I’m wasting my life hoping they will.

Am I wrong for walking away?
Should I still wait and hope for change?
Or should I finally accept that one sided love alone is not enough to save a relationship? "

-Girl

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25/05/2026

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25/05/2026

#17791

My uncle who is Thai maman is an all time pl***oy. Native is nearby dindugul and I heard that he used our property in the past and have very bad name as well. My father is a retired teacher and mother is a soft natured housewife. My uncle made use of our calm nature and took responsibility of taking care of our assets.

Now I heard that he had promised some of our lands to his ex setups who are old ladies. One of them started getting our land been used without paying money. It is 4 acres and now I noticed. They are threatening and my uncle is keeping silent and we organised local panchayat and in that also he kept silent. Please be careful with all your such relatives who says they take care of ur land and assets

-Guy

24/05/2026

#17790

M 31, married agi 3 yers aagudhu. Oru 1 year baby irukka. Oru petrol bunk maintenance company la manager vela paakren. 28 age varaikkum marriage aagala. My parents naraya poi solli dhaan marriage panni vachanga.

Naan 12th fail and diploma padichu indha work ku ponen. BE engineer nu ponnu veetla solli marriage panni vachanga. Wife Mcom and working. Ippo PhD panranga.

Nethu my wife ennoda 12th mark sheet paathutanga. Maths la 25 marks overall becaus enakku sutha ma maths varadhu.

Baby ya kootitu amma veetukku poitanga. Ippo naan Enna panradhu. Naan venaam nu sonnen. My parents dhaan BE nu somnanga to get good working girl and marriage expenses paathupanga nu.

Ippo divorce panna kooda en kitta dhaan kaas kepangalaam friends somnanga. Sumugama Enna panradhu

-Guy

24/05/2026

#17789

Hi! 32 F. I am searching for a person who made me think I am still good looking and noted. I was travelling from Avinashi to Salem, (today 23/5/26) on our way we stopped at a Tea spot (MDS) Perumanallur. There while paying the bill I felt like someone was looking at me as we girls do have that intution. There was a guy wearing white tshirt and black pant with a sling bag across his shoulder eating a tea cake ans smoking, looking at me. Our eyes met only for few seconds but I felt something great. He completed his puff and went but I have been thinking about him since then. To the guy who made me feel awesome... Thank you so much. It's been long time since I have been felt this way.

-Girl

24/05/2026

#17788

F25, recently married three weeks ago, my husband goes to turf cricket every Friday night and Sunday mostly. Yesterday he came very tired and exhausted. He said they played more aggressive and due to heat more energy got exhausted. Today morning he got vomitged and noticed his one testicle got swollen with more pain and he couldn’t walk properly.

Then he said he got hit my full tozz ball while playing and it hurt him like this. Guys who are playing in turf, please play with guard. Doctor said he has to be admitted as internal injury and blood discharge. Ungergobe a mild surgery and now he has to stay careful for next one month and couldn’t walk two weeks. Please be careful.

-Girl

24/05/2026

#17787

Hi. I'm asking for my brother.he is 30age.march month avanuku eye checkup kaga hospital ponom chennai la.avanga ecg echo eduka sonnanga .ecg la variation irunthathala echo eduthom.athula avanuku hocm Iruku nu sonnanga(hypertrophic obstructive cardiomyopathy).heart oda left ventricle thick ah Iruku nu.icd device vekkanum 5lakhs agum nu soldranga.heart muscle relax pandrathu ku tablet kuduthanga antha tablet india la innum lauch agala. tablet romba cost ah Iruku per month 21000aguthu. tablet name: mavacampton.monthly monthly tablet vangrathuku romba kastama iruku.enga family middle class ithula intha mari problem vanthathum romba kastama iruku.avan romba kasta padran.health insurance um illa.avanuku marriage agi 2years than aguthu.ithanala romba stress agaran. doctor vera intha tablet long term ah use pannanum sollitanga.itha pathi ethavathu therinja konjam sollunga pls.chennai la cardiologist doctor sollunga. second opinion kaga.thanks in advance.

-Girl

24/05/2026

#17787

Veyil bayangarama irukku. Not sure how kids will go to school when it resumes June 2nd. How can we request government or educational departments to consider postponing schools. Especially kids under 3rd standard mostly the schools closed between 2.30 and 3.30pm when the peak heat. As a parent I feel this sun is cruel for kids to handle. Please viral this request and request government to postpone or have online school until summer comes down a bit.

-Girl

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