03/09/2025
#11403 LANGUAGE:ENGLISH
Hi, 30F, Sorry for long post. We are living in abroad and came to India to show our 6 months baby girl to our family and friends.
When I was 4 months pregnant we invited our mother to abroad but unfortunately she is not able to survive there because of the weather and not much connections to talk like india. Every night she used to call my father and cried a lot when we were sleeping. Also because of my husband attitude and behavior each and every day he used to check what food she was giving and how many fruit juices she was preparing for me (treated like a servant). Because of all those reasons, one day midnight she cried a lot and told want to go to India(many times happened. Somehow I managed to calm her so that my husband won't talk anything rubbish about my parents) immediately we booked the flight and 2 days after she went back without anyone support she travelled. I sent her with heavy hearted and I was crying a lot still crying because of my inability to take care of my mother. My husband gave some foreign currencies for her if needed while travelling and told to my father i gave to her like i offer to beggers. And now I came to know that how much she struggled during the transit and inside the flight. First time feeling very sad to born as a girl. My husband immediately after mother left started abusing me with bad words at my mother(He was the one rebooked the flight. And told me it's OK potum namma pathukalam nu) starting from here till today he is putting lot of bad words at my parents and now not allowing me to my parents house. My parents came to his home to meet me and my child he didn't invite them and they came and went like a slaves. Also 2 years back we spent some lakhs of amount in one property which is my father neice one. Without knowing it's under land ceiling act we shared the amount and they said within 3 months they buy patta and asked us to share remaining amount after that. When we came to know about the land we started asking them to return the money but they are not still we are fighting. My husband also there while talking about the property now blaming my father was the reason for this. My parents went to commissioner office and police station and trying multiple ways to get back the money. Because of all those reasons he is talking rubbish about my parents using bad words started while I was pregnant. I used to cry daily and no one was there to calm and support me. Sometime at 2 am midnight he used to put kitchen vessels on side of me while sleeping and I used to woke up with surprise sounds and he walks here and there with threatening eyes and start talking in bad words about these incidents while I was pregnant. And after baby born, he tortured physically after a month of delivery. I was crying daily with infant how I will manage when I go to India. Now I am in India. He is not allowing me to my parents home. I can't even share how much pain I am in. My father looks like a deadbody. My mother is also not feeling well. With this situation they are handling me also the case. Now I am thinking to end my life but while seeing my daughter face i couldn't. Now he using badwords infront of everyone in in law home.
Now he always says my parents are sakkadai. Noone tolerate if someone talking bad words against parents. Living in the hell. If I am crying while he started talking in bad words, he used to enjoy like starring at me continuously. Abusing me physically and mentally. My baby's weight is coming down slowly. Please suggest me to come out of this.
