18/08/2026
First steps, First words
Recorded in the hope that a family would be reunited.
In the summer of 1942, when deportation orders started to be issued in the Netherlands, Eliyahu and Betty Pakter found a hiding place for their baby son with the help of the Dutch resistance. Abraham was just three months old when he was entrusted to Maria and Frans Pakker, a childless Dutch couple from the city of Almelo.
In order not to arouse suspicion, the Pakkers changed Abraham's name to Wim, and he grew up in their house as their biological son. Feeling Betty's pain at having to part from her son, Maria started to document Wim's progress in a notebook: his first steps, first words, childhood illnesses, in the hope that one day he would be returned to his parents and these pages would help bridge the gaps.
After the war, when Abraham was reunited with his parents who had survived in another hiding place, the Pakkers gave Eliyahu and Betty the diary. About one year before the liberation Maria and Frans had a child of their own, and while they had tried not to become too attached to Wim, the parting proved very challenging for Maria.
In 2009, Maria and Frans Pakker were recognized by Yad Vashem as Righteous Among the Nations.
During the Holocaust, women recognized as Righteous Among the Nations risked their lives to provide Jewish children with physical shelter, accompanied by warmth and maternal care. At the end of the war, Jewish women took orphaned children under their wing, serving as mother figures and guiding them through their physical and psychological rehabilitation.
Their stories are here: https://www.yadvashem.org/exhibitions/motherhood/adoptive-mothers
Yad Vashem Documents Archive
Moshal Repository, O.33/10683