22/06/2026
πΏ He was born in Dublin in 1854, the son of Sir William Wilde β Ireland's leading eye and ear surgeon β and Jane Elgee, who published nationalist poetry under the name Speranza and who gave her son the gift of a tongue so sharp and so playful and so capable of making the important seem trivial and the trivial seem important that his conversation was considered, by those who experienced it, to be among the finest pleasures available in the English-speaking world. He took that gift to Oxford and then to London and made it the foundation of a career that produced some of the most enduring plays, one of the most perfect novels, and some of the most quoted aphorisms in the English language. And then the world destroyed him for being what he was, which was Irish and brilliant and gay and unwilling to pretend otherwise when pretence was still survivable.
Oscar Wilde's Irishness is more central to his work and his worldview than is usually acknowledged in the English literary tradition that has mostly claimed him. His outsider perspective β the Irishman in London, acutely conscious of the codes and conventions of a society he was simultaneously performing for and parodying β is the structural basis of the comedy in "The Importance of Being Earnest" and "An Ideal Husband." His mother's nationalist background and his father's deep engagement with Irish folklore and antiquity shaped a sensibility that was never fully at ease in English social convention, however brilliantly it appeared to inhabit it.
His trial and conviction for gross indecency in 1895, his two years in Reading Gaol, his exile and death in Paris in 1900 at forty-six β broke a man who had been at the absolute centre of his world. But they did not break the work. "The Importance of Being Earnest" is still being performed. "The Picture of Dorian Gray" is still being read. "De Profundis" β written from prison, addressed to Lord Alfred Douglas β is still one of the most searing accounts of love and betrayal and the cost of living as you are rather than as you are expected to be.
He is buried in Père Lachaise Cemetery in Paris. His tomb is covered in lipstick kisses. It has always been covered in lipstick kisses.
That seems about right. πΏ