08/10/2026
Would your partner feel able tell you?
Our new research with Ipsos B&A found that 44% of people in Ireland believe worry about how a partner might react stops survivors of sexual violence from seeking support. Survivors themselves put it at the same level. That means for many people, the person closest to them may be one of the hardest to tell.
Most partners would want to help, but survivors worry about anger, blame, questions, or taking over. A survivor who has to manage someone else's response on top of their own trauma may decide it is easier to say nothing.
Cultivating a relationship based on respect and compassion now can lead to confidence when it matters.
If someone tells you, the most important thing you can do is believe them, stay calm, and follow their lead – in that moment more than ever, complete respect for their autonomy is essential.
The 24-hour National Helpline is free and confidential and supports partners and family members too. Call 1800 77 8888, any time.