Naked Man

28/01/2026

Hello All! I feel called to work more with expats these days, so I’m starting a small in-person men’s group here in Hungary — something that’s been quietly growing in me for a while now. If you have friends, relatives, or coworkers living in Budapest who might need real connection or support, I’d love it if you passed this on. Thank you for helping this find the people it’s meant for.

22/01/2026

Sziasztok!
Jelenleg az országban az elsők között Compassionate Inquiry (Dr. Maté Gábor) képzésem lezárásánál tartok, és mostantól trauma­tudatos segítői munkámat főállásban végzem.(yay!)
A Compassionate Inquiry egy bizonyítottan hatékony, együttérző módszer, amely különösen jól alkalmazható:
–  korai gyermekkori, fejlődési és kapcsolati traumák
– függőségek
– kiégés, életközépi válság
– vállás, párkapcsolati krízis
– szülői kihívások esetén.
 
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07/11/2025

As our November 22. Cacao ceremony draws closer, we felt we want to share a few words on why ceremony matters — and what you can expect when you join us.

Ceremony is humanity’s ancient pathway back to the essence — to body, emotion, each other, Spirit.
It matters because a sacred container reminds us: we are not alone.
Shared rhythm, shared song, shared presence calls in that ancient-yet-familiar field where the human is not “performing” — but simply is.
Ceremony is not theatre — but a return to an old human tradition where connection is not an idea, but an actual, lived experience. In these spaces, everyday time dissolves a little — and we become again who we truly are: humans remembering that in the field of the heart, everything works differently.

Cacao is a gift from the Mesoamerican lineages — a heart-opening plant, not a “sweet treat”, but a subtle teacher that supports where the mind alone is no longer enough.

During our ceremony we sit together in a circle around an altar, and with the support of the facilitator’s words, songs and instruments, everyone participates according to their own pace, capacity and calling.

There is nothing mandatory — the only invitation is this: listen inward — and from that inner listening, connect outward.

We are not “performing magic” — we are simply remembering what it feels like to live with an open heart.

If you feel the call, here is the link to the event:

We look forward to welcoming you, with love.

András & Adrienn

https://fb.me/e/6PknN1J8I

04/11/2025

“I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself.” - D.H. Lawrence

The whole situation was unfair. He was only 8 months old when he stepped into an illegal trap that would cost him one of his front legs.

I cried for him.
I cried for the loss of his limb.
I cried for the injustice of it all.

But he did none of that…

When he woke up from his amputation surgery, he immediately tried to stand. It took him a matter of seconds to realize that the limb wasn’t there and to adjust his weight accordingly so he could still move around.

He didn’t sulk.
He simply adjusted.

In the coming weeks, he taught himself how to dig, hunt and run all over again. Even with only three limbs, he passed all necessary tests for release back into the wild. Up until then, it was assumed that foxes in rehab in our state would not survive in the wild after an amputation. I was thankful the state allowed me the opportunity to test that theory.

He was named Phoenix and he taught us far more than we ever taught him.

We will all experience loss in our lives. Some of those losses can make us move forward in life feeling unwhole. Maybe it’s a break up, the loss of a job or a dream that just didn’t turn out how we hoped it would.

Phoenix taught me that healing doesn’t mean what’s missing comes back. It means we have adjusted. We have shifted as needed to push forward - to persevere.

We are not defined by our losses, but by our strength, our endurance and all we are willing to conquer and overcome. We are forged through the fire.

03/11/2025

Somehow all
of this is connected…:) thank you!

01/11/2025

I did something last week most therapists would never do.

Classic psych paradigm says: therapeutic neutrality + minimal self-disclosure preserves transference and protects clinical boundaries.

Last weekend — I stepped entirely out of that frame:
I attended a men’s retreat together with three of my clients.

Old-school theory would consider that “contamination of the container.”

For us — it deepened the container.

Because men don’t only heal from interpretation — they heal from embodiment, resonance, attunement.

They saw me in the process — not outside of it.
Not as the one who “knows” — but as a man doing his own work.

This kind of masculinity — shared, unarmoured, present — builds something talk cannot.

For me — this was not a boundary break.
It was a paradigm shift.

Less “therapist as an empty canvas.”
More “therapist as courageous human — walking with you.”

It added a immense depth to our container, our client-therapist relationship, brotherhood.

Photo: \

01/11/2025

I did something last week most therapists would never do.

Classic psych paradigm says: therapeutic neutrality + minimal self-disclosure preserves transference and protects clinical boundaries.

Last weekend — I stepped entirely out of that frame:
I attended a men’s retreat together with three of my clients.

Old-school theory would consider that “contamination of the container.”

For us — it deepened the container.
Because men don’t only heal from interpretation — they heal from embodiment, resonance, attunement.

They saw me in the process — not outside of it.

Not as the one who “knows” — but as a man doing his own work.

This kind of masculinity — shared, unarmoured, present — builds something talk cannot.

For me — this was not a boundary break.

It was a paradigm shift.

Less “therapist as an empty canvas."

More “therapist as courageous human — walking with you.”

It added a immense depth to our container, our client-therapist relationship, brotherhood.

Photo: Andras Turi \ All Male Area

28/10/2025

First post — still finding my rhythm here. But if it speaks to even one of you, it’s already doing its job.

When is the right time to start your healing journey? Well, I have some good news and some bad news. The good news is...

22/10/2025

Come, sit with me.

20/10/2025

The Altar of the Father’s Blessing

This weekend I had a deeply moving experience in a Family Constellations session — I met my father again.

He’s been gone for almost 30 years. But this time, I met him not as his son, but as a man.

I saw his need to control, his impossible expectations, his inability to love freely. I saw how I carried his wounds as my own.

And then, something incredible happened — he saw me. The man I have become. He apologized. He congratulated me. And I forgave him.

Out of that healing, I built an altar — The Altar of the Paternal Blessing — in our space, The Shelter.

At its center is a stag head he once shot, now reborn as a symbol of the father’s love — the stag that protects, renews, and grows new antlers each year.

Every man who comes here is invited to leave a note — words from his father he longs to hear, or blessings he wants to give.

Because no matter how old we are, every man still longs for his father’s blessing.

And when it’s finally given — or reclaimed — something ancient heals.

Wake up. Grow up. Show up. 🦌

15/10/2025

Wake up! Grow up! Show up! Here we go!

13/06/2025

HEALING BY EXAMPLE – A beavatott férfi nyomában

„A liminális tér az, ahol minden igazi átalakulás megtörténik.” – Richard Rohr

A modern férfiak többsége úgy próbál helytállni a világban, hogy soha nem lépett át valódi liminális téren – azon az átmeneti, zavarba ejtő, komfortzónán túli téridőn, ahol az én meghal, és valami új születik.

A természetben, egyedül töltött idő nem csupán pihenés – hanem beavatás lehet.
Egyfajta “szent bizonytalanság”, ahol lehullanak a szerepek, címek, narratívák.
És ahol a férfi szembesül saját árnyékaival, vágyaival, félelmeivel – s végül saját erejével is.

A beavatott férfi nem tökéletes.
De tudja, hogy a fájdalmon keresztül vezet az út a szeretetig.
Tud csendben lenni, figyelni, és más férfiakat is emlékeztetni arra, hogy van út – mélyebb, igazabb, szabadabb.

Ebben a sorozatban azokat a férfiakat (is) keresem, akik megtapasztalták már a határmezsgyét, és azokat, akik hívást éreznek arra, hogy beleengedjék magukat ebbe a csodálatos, ősi munkába.
Akik mertek egyedül lenni az erdőben.
Akik nem a zajban, hanem a csöndben találtak válaszokat.

Te mikor léptél utoljára ki a komfortzónádból, hogy visszatalálj önmagadhoz?

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