Obiss Foundation, Tema (2026)

15/10/2025

am a girl of 24yrs,there is the married man that i have been dating almost year and,he's a gud man caring supportive,but he doesn't give me cash,what i me is that each time i ask him for money he always complain but he will want to know what i want to use the money for then if i want to buy something with money he will buy it for me if i want to make hair he will make sure i do so if not i will have to face money strake,to cut the long story shot,something happened between u,the thing is wanted to travel i told him he said there's no money for now that when i travel he will try and send me 20k,i was angry i asked why is it that each time i asked him for money he never like giving me?he just say pls try and understand,i said understand what,is not like the money is not there ooh,he works in a company and also has shop where he sold provision wholesale,but he is not that type to be giving cash out like that,what am trying to say is that one day i took his card he didn't know about i want to his house i spend the night there,mind you he is not stay with his family,so in the morning before he left for work i too the card,like i said without hes notice,i know his pin he told me, so i wante know if he wasn't lying when he said he doesn't have money,but when i check he has some money the i was angry,so i withdrow 40k first i was inneed of money,later that same day i want to the market with my elder sis to get some thing for my son,sorry i didn't mention am a single mum,so on my way to the market he saw me,and he called me on the phone he was driving in his car,so he asked if i took his card and i said no if you ask me i don't know why i said that,but after then i was thinking that when i get to the house i will talk to him that we will settle it maybe he will just give me the usual pornishment of money strake,but God has another plan for me,he came to the market he was very angry, all the money i took from the account was 8k,he took the money i mean the one i withdraw in the market it was 40k,so he took he also took my phone and left,but i have my own card with me so i still manage to bought somethings although not much,so i and my sis left the market,on getting home i use my sis phone to call him and he pick he thought it was me sis he said just tell your younger sister to send my remaining money to me and i just reply him and said okay sir just send your details and he did asap,i all so send the money,i called hum again with me sis phone to asked if he saw the money and he said yes,then he let him know i was the one calling he just said i should never in my life call him again,my sis try to beg him for me but he says the samething,so pls ma i needed advice from your fellower,what should i do it been a month now,i just want him to forgive me even if he is not taking me back of which i know he won't,i know am a thife,ungraetful and gridy human being,i accsept,but how do i talk to him so he will forgive me.

15/10/2025

Please advise 🙏🏽

15/10/2025

She finally opened her small food business Mama Maka’s Kitchen 🍛🔥
But guess who became her biggest problem? Her own husband

He ate every day on credit saying What is mine is yours
Until one afternoon, she faced him and said Oga business is business Even my mother pays

When Chiamaka opened her small food business Mama Maka’s Kitchen it became the talk of the street. Her jollof rice was always bright and smoky, her egusi thick and delicious, and her pepper soup could wake a sleeping man. People came from every corner of town, shouting, “Mama Maka, give me rice and meat!” She smiled proudly each time. After years of managing her home kitchen, she was finally making money from her passion. But success, as she would soon learn, can face its greatest test inside one’s own house.

Her husband, Kene, was her biggest fan and soon, her biggest debtor. At first, it was sweet. He’d stroll into the restaurant like a king, wink at the staff, and shout, “My wife! Give me food before your customers finish everything!” The workers would laugh, and she’d serve him with love. But one day, she noticed her books weren’t adding up. After checking the daily record, she frowned. “Who is this Kene Okoro? He owes ₦7,000?” The cashier smiled shyly. “Madam… that’s Oga.”

Chiamaka’s eyes widened. “My husband?” she asked. “Yes, ma. He said to put it on credit because… well, you’re his wife.” She sighed, shaking her head. The next day, she called Kene aside after closing. “My dear,” she said gently, “I’m happy you support my business, but please, try to pay. If everyone eats free, I’ll close down in one month.” He laughed and waved it off. “Ah, my wife, stop worrying. What is mine is yours, what is yours is mine. Why should I pay to eat my own food?

Weeks passed, and Kene’s “free meals” multiplied. Soon, his friends joined in, joking, “Our in-law, please tell your wife to give us food we are family!” By the end of the month, Chiamaka realized half her profit had gone into feeding her husband and his friends. That night, she couldn’t sleep. Her mind played like a calculator. Rent. Food. Gas. School fees. If she didn’t take control, her dream would die before it started.

The next morning, Kene walked into the shop as usual. “Mama Maka!” he called, grinning. “Bring my usual — rice, meat, and one chilled drink.” Chiamaka turned from the counter, arms folded. “Oga, do you have money?” she asked calmly. He blinked. “Money? For what?” She smiled sweetly. “For your food. This is not charity, it’s business.” Everyone in the shop went quiet.

Kene looked around, embarrassed Ah-ah, Chiamaka! I’m your husband!”
“Yes,” she said firmly and that’s why I’m teaching you discipline. Even my own mother pays. If I allow everyone to eat free because we’re related, who will pay rent?”

The customers started giggling. Kene’s pride battled with shame. “So you won’t serve me unless I pay?”
She nodded. “Exactly. Even God collects offering from His children

That day, Kene left without eating, muttering under his breath. When he got home that night, he complained, “You embarrassed me in front of everybody!” She looked him in the eye. “No, my husband. I built this business to support our family. But if I turn it into free food ministry, we’ll both go hungry

He sighed, looking guilty. “I just thought… since I’m family
Chiamaka smiled softly. “Family should support, not drain. If I fail, we both fail

The next morning, before she even opened her shop, Kene showed up with a proud grin and dropped ₦2,000 on the counter. “One plate of jollof with meat as a paying customer.” She laughed and hugged him. “Now you’re my best customer.” From that day on, he paid for every meal and even began helping her promote the business.

Before long, Mama Maka’s Kitchen became the most respected spot in the area. People admired her discipline. When others joked, “Ah, you even make your husband pay?” she’d reply, “Yes. Business doesn’t understand romance.” Kene started telling everyone, “If you love your wife, respect her hustle

In the evenings, they would sit outside the shop counting money together, laughing over old stories You know he’d say “I almost turned your dream into debt She’d grin and reply “That’s why I turned you into a customer They’d both laugh their bond stronger than before

Lesson
Love thrives on respect, not entitlement. Chiamaka’s story teaches that when you mix family with business, discipline must lead the way. Real love doesn’t ask for discounts — it pays full price and claps the loudest when you win.

By Peace Saratu Ayuba

15/10/2025

Good evening sir, I lost my hubby this march. Since then, my in-laws took possession of our properties. They wanted to take my baby but I fled and rent apartment elsewhere, in another state. I have not gotten any home appliances, not gas nor house equipments. I do buy food outside for me and my toddler. There is no job because I rented apartment at a remote area in ogun state and I sell fashion accessories online but no sales. My toddler is sick (teething), but to get medical care is expensive. My own families are trying but things are just so hard. I don't have a mother. Just a father.
God bless us.
Here is my contact 08149977830

Here is my account details also
8091595921 opay account Mariam oseni

15/10/2025

My ex sent me this as a reason he didn’t want to marry me

We have been together for over 4 years, and I kept asking him about marriage and kids. After he told me he doesn’t see that for us, I ended things because I’m in my late 20s and I’m not about to waste my early 30s waiting on him.

Today he sent me this. Please keep in mind I met this man while I was studying and I always had my goals and aspirations before we even met.

Am I overreacting?

14/10/2025

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14/10/2025

Good afternoon
Do not be angry I came to you. Pls post for me. I went to my girlfriend house to introduce my intention of marrying their daughter. But what her uncle did got me confused. As I was leaving just some few meters away this man stopped me and said i shouldn't marry the girl that I will dyee if I marry her. That I am the 3rd person coming to marry her and the 2 of them all dyeeed. And this my girl has never told me anything about it. I confronted her but she said it was only one that dyeeed after he came for introduction then the second one broke up after the introduction. This thing gave me chills. She never told me about it. Please what do you think I should do?

14/10/2025

I noticed that since I became mature a responsible and well to do man has never asked me out
I hawk popcorn and groundnut in a place where men that are rich and responsible sells,but they don’t look my way
It’s always the touts,the Okada riders and married keke men that always ask me out
Note that I am not beautiful I am very beautiful but I’m small in size
This has been bothering me for long ,is it because I don’t look my age or is it because I hawk that brings the wrong people to me
Or is it spiritual
Please I really need advice

14/10/2025

Good afternoon ma'am, trust you're doing great please post for me and hide my ID. I'm in a distance relationship... I'm 31years and my fiance is 35 years
It happens that my fiance wants me to pay him a visit and spend like two weeks in his place but the thing is am from a very strict family meaning my father gave us a serious home training to the extend that visiting a man that's not your husband yet is as simple as a wayward life and that will even bring seefinish between you and the guy, though my parents are both late it's only my sisters and brother and I don't even know how to tell them.
We only had an introduction with this guy in questions and it has been our two years of courtship now though he has been trying for us to get married but the little work he's doing is not generating anything much .
I need an advice from your followers if I should go or not.thank you

14/10/2025

Good morning
I'm sorry to disturb you this early morning. I have my sister. My elder sister for that matter. Very wil1cked and hatless. She use to help me pay my first son's school fees. What happened is that I used to buy things from her shop and she also sells pap. But I later stopped buying her pap and buying from another woman. This woman her own is more better biko. My sister's own I don't too like it. Though my sister knows the woman and knows I buy pap from her but when it comes to my children I give them the best. Everybody knows we don't joke with our children.
My sister have seen me buying things from the woman I thought she will understand that the woman own is better than her own. So since school started I have been calling her to ask her for my son's school fees and she keep saying she doesn't have. She said the one she has she is using it to do something more important. So my son is not important again imagine. Mummy Ngoo this my sister is rich and people rush her pap also I don't know why she is w1keding me like this. My son's school have been disturbing and they are saying they will send him back if we do not bring it by next week. I can't believe this my sister is so w1ked like this. How can she have minds to do this to me and her nephew. Mummy is this not an act of pure w1kedness. Please ma I need to f0ce that money out of her. I don't know what she is expecting me to do. What does she want me to do?

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