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Fragile, Kumasi (2026)

24/08/2024

Good afternoon everyone.

Keep me anonymous .Am a 20 year old girl.Am currently have problems that are beyond my countrol.
There is this guy i met somewhere 2019 we dated for some time and he asked forb a break up and i gave it to him, all though i still love him.So both moved on with our lifes.
Along the line in 2021 we got back to contact and started talking and he proposed back around 2023 when i was about leaving SHS..
We are dating till now but the problem i have is he is a scammer and he doesn't want to go to school too..
I have tried convincing him but it all landed on death ears.
I still love him but he can provide my needs and his always talking about s*x s*x s*x.
He have become a s*x addict due to the scamming and other s*xual stuffs he does to pleasese the clients.
I still love him but there is this other guy who does provide me with some of my needs .Am also working though but i need a helping hand but my boyfriend is not really a helping hand to me but the other guy.
I don't want to cheat on him too!Am the first born of my family and they are all looking up to me.
Please what can i do?😢😢

22/08/2024

Hi
Pls keep me anonymous
So I meet this guy some time ago at Aduri,we exchanged contact there cos he said he liked my dressing and walk so he’s a social media photographer, so he’ll give me gigs, be his model or something. He had his tools with him and he took my friend and I some nice pictures
So after I came back to Accra we use to text and I could see he was interested in me ,but I made it clear to him that I’m in a relationship so he didn’t really talk about dating with me
He never talked about the gigs again too,only hi,I miss you and those stuffs, I also didn’t talk about it again bec I was working at the moment and had no time for other stuffs
As time goes on our vibe lost so we weren’t chatting at all
He used to reply to my status with silly comments .
I once replied his status that “Ei you dey” and he said yh and the vibe closed again
Just yesterday I posted a meme on my status with the content that “I find calm men so attractive,a man who will not yell at me when he’s upset, blah blah blah” and he commented that “so that you’ll cheat” Infact I was so pi**ed cos why will you say that to me ,I fell it’s disrespect ,he could have said “you women get these men and still cheat on them I would have taken it as a general something but for him to say “so that you’ll cheat” is like he is talking to me directly or he has seen me cheat or something like that sort.
But I just replied him that “see you😒😅, that’s on you bossu, I have that man and I’m not and I’ll never cheat on him” and he replied with “Lmfao” so i found it so weird
I screenshot it and went to post on my status with the caption that “not all girls are cheats like your mothers and sisters” I wasn’t talking to him cos I would have said it directly to him if I wanted to😒
I saw it as a meme and I posted with my caption.
In my head I thought I was done with him about the issues
I posted it around 1 only for me to come online around 6 and see that this guy has viewed the post and insulted me basaa 🤦‍♀️ “ stupid girl, I thought you had sense but today you’ve made me know your level of ignorance is intense bla bla “ so I replied him and said the post was not directly to him and that I saw it as a meme and I post it with that caption ,I was even about to apologise.
And he replied with “I won’t listen to anything,stupid girl,you’re blocked” and he blocked me at the moment 🙄🚶‍♀️
Do you guys think what I didn’t was wrong and what he did was right or
Cos I’m not sure he can reply to his mom,gf or sisters post that “so that you’ll cheat”

21/08/2024

After shs, I decided to work for a year to gather some money for school
I got to work as a Momo agent
There was a married man very close to the woman I work for(she was also married)
This man came to me oneday and said he needed a number to transfer money from the bank to so I can withdraw for him
I gave my number out because the ones there were merchant sims
Yes so I was there another time and he came around asking why my number is not reachable according to him he said he has tried calling but it doesn’t come through I told him my phone is not that good only for him to say he’s coming
He left and he came back the same day with infinix smart 5
Sha I was scared to receive that phone because there’ll be questions to answer in the house but he was like he is willingly giving it to me so if my parents ask I should say my boss bought it for me and I was like okay
I took the phone and thanked him
This man started texting and calling me that he’s in love with me eiiii
Someone who is married and is also dating a married woman I’m working for eiii
I told him I’m not interested in him and all he could say is I should think about it
I’ll be there and he’ll send me money and airtime but still I wasn’t ready for him
At the end of the year , I stopped working for the woman and now I’m in school
This man is still texting and sending me money without asking him
Right now my problem is he’s saying he’s going to marry me after school since he has spent on me
What do I do???
I Never agreed to date him or ask for his help
Any advice??

14/08/2024

Hello Fragile
Please keep me anonymous, I need advice on something.I’m a 24yr lady and I’m in a 7yrs relationship but the thing is I’ve fallen out of love due to some reasons.Firstly ever since I remember this guy is always jokingly teasing me that I’m fat and my stomach is big and all that and the truth is I’m not that’s fat I weigh 80kg and I hv big b***s and I get ass that matches it too
Secondly he doesn’t last long we’ve tried several medications but still so it’s always less than a minute and because of that he doesn’t sleep with me, we can go a whole 2 months without s*x and he’ll be ok but I’m not. I’m the first lady he’s ever been with so cos of this he doesn’t know anything I’ve thought him several things but he’s not willing to learn anything on his own. Thirdly I love to cook so I always make sure I cook for him, wash his clothes and clean his place whenever I go around but it has gotten to a point that he sees it as my responsibility and he’ll complain, nag and get angry if I don’t do it for him but we’re not married. Now I’m so confused if these reasons are enough to end a 7yrs relationship and deep down me I know I don’t like him anymore and I’m worried about what people will say when I leave him. The truth is he’s a very good guy he tries to provide for my needs. Please help me with your advice 🙏

12/08/2024

Hello good evening
I really need advice
It’s seems am thinking too much about this lady.
About a month ago I met this lady through his Ex who use to be my course mate at the University.
The guy told me she cheated and the lady left her .
Things wasn’t good based on our conversation and other stuffs at first though.
Being a guy I tried hard to made her understand my feelings for her and my plans.
She understood me but guys the way sometimes I feel and sense about this lady is very terrible.
When she comes to my place I really feel that I’m in a relationship but anytime she is not around it’s different.
I do call this lady and she will hung up my calls. She do blacklist me on his phone.
I have been asking her whether she has different guy , she has been telling NO ……
I really need your advice

12/08/2024

Fragile please I’m here to address some comments under my confession
Some of you guys are saying it’s just s*x s*x s*x, remember I’ve been in this relationship for the past 7yrs and I’m not some s*x addict but if it’s once in a while then it should be worth it. And we communicate I’ve told him I don’t like when he body shame me cox some jokes shouldn’t exceed to some limit, because of this I’m always starving myself to loose weight. So what’ll happen when I give birth cos I’ll definitely get fat. And if I say he provide for me it doesn’t mean I depend on him I’m well do to cox I’m working. And I’m not looking for people to side with me so I can leave him I Jxt want some advice

10/08/2024

aight,so this ain't the regular confession kinda story. just wanna know what y'all think. straight. been tryna win this girl over, for couple of months now but to no avail. she's just been tellin me that she ain't ready and a whole lotta things. right, I respected her decision regardless of how bad I felt. sometimes I think bout how she behaves and I simply hate Love and also myself for falling for someone who doesn't regard me as much,you know. aight, after tryna stay in her circle but always disrespected, I decided to give her space,you know. might even help me get over her,maybe. few weeks of no communication, I was okay living life and just trading and flipping my accounts. she later called me with a whole lotta nagging! asking why the heck I ain't reaching out to her anymore. so I told her, I can't wait for the food vendor when the food is finished. she got pi**ed and told me point blank, I wasn't in her choice of guys. well, it hurt,yh it did. so I told her I understand so it's better we avoid each other for couple of days or months because I needed to get away from all these emotions. so early this month,she reached out to me calling me a liar. she said I lied to her that I loved her and wasn't with any lady. Guys, I'm single,like real single but my WhatsApp statuses might say otherwise. I do post girls for fun. and this girl is here complaining like we're dating and she caught me cheating. you ain't ready to be in a relationship, I'm single and posting girls on my start and she's complaining and telling me she doesn't trust me and blah blah. she can call me and be like, I was just checking up on you. I'd say okay, I'm good and she'd hang up. like what does she want? cuz I'm perplexed guys. what y'all think. would be reading your comments

07/08/2024

Keep me anonymous please
So there’s this guy I met at the gym and I fell in love with him at that moment. So fast forward, I got a chance to train with him and I took his number from someone and luckily for me, he was from my tribe so we became friends and eventually we had s*x. Then he told me he had a child with someone, he has a serious girlfriend abroad and he has one in accra and he has slept with almost all the girls at the gym that he showed me evidence and he even wanted to create a group for them and add me. Can you imagine?? I told him I’m not interested to be part of that group and ge told me I can’t be his girlfriend if I’m not interested in the group. I deleted his number and ignored him at the gym buh I can’t continue again because I really love
Please can I get any advice about how to move on?? Because I really want to forget everything

06/08/2024

Hi fragile , please I need advise on this. I hope I'm anonymous
I met this guy about 4 years ago who I think it's madly in love with me but no matter what he does I can't develop a soft spot for him. I know within me that he loves me but something about him doesn't seen right to me. He has supported me countless times without asking for anything in return. To be honest I've not asked him for a dime before but he willingly does things which I even think it's crazy like cooking for me without informing me first.
Mind you he's married with three kids but now they are separated due to work. I've never been to his house before but he knows where family lives and where I live also.
Now the issue is that he's divorcing his wife, he has settled her and everything, literally the wife can't lie against her that he left her with nothing. He's giving her his house and has built a new one for himself which he wants me to move in since the house will be vacant. He asked me to tell my family so we move together but I rejected the offer. He says he's being nice because he genuinely likes me , and understands if I don't want anything to do with a married man. I feel like there is more to it because this is a man that has been claiming to divorce his wife but it's still with her,probably wants to coax me into becoming his lover .He even lied about his family until I got him to admit, like who dies that? I don't want to accept his offer and thinks I'm being unreasonable, like who rejects a house? I told him I will only accept it when he presents me with documents in my name as the owner of the property. He always tries to win me with expensive gifts but I always reject it because I don't want to meddle with married men.Besides I'm also dating someone who is doing perfectly well for me and trying to make our future better, I won't jeopardize this for someone who doesn't know what he wants other than me becoming his side chick or secret lover. I already know I'm stupid so kindly advice me in what to do. I will be in the comments section

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