A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "In order to answer your question,
go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat
and come back. But the rule is: you can go through
them only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went to the field, go through first row, he
saw one big wheat, but he wonders... may be there is
a
bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger o
ne... But may be there is
an even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat
field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as
the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the
biggest one, and he regretted. The teacher told him, "This is love... You keep looking
for a better one, but when later you realize, you have
already miss the person..." "What is marriage then?" the student asked. The teacher said, "In order to answer your question,
go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and
come back. But the rule is: you can go through them
only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went to the corn field, this time he is
careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he
reach the middle of the field, he has picked one
medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to
the teacher. The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a
corn. You look for one that is just nice, and you have
faith and believe this is the best one you get... This is
marriage."