02/10/2026
🍁🍂🎃October is a weird month for us. It's our favourite time of year, we love the cooler days, autumn colours, halloween and the start of the Christmas countdown.
It's also the month Seirian was diagnosed with cancer and flashbacks to that time can catch us unawares. We know it's important to process past traumas, to recognise what they were and feel the pain of them in safe and caring ways. It's ok to talk about it, remember the events and feelings we had, and be sure to say well that was then and this is now.
🧡Now Seirian is doing full days in high school with great support from school. She has a space she can go to for rest and help to move around the huge campus. There are some hurdles but we're fixing things where we can so that Seirian experiences classes in a positive way.
Yes she's hurting a lot more, and is absolutely exhausted. But we can see that usual quiet determination in her that eeks forward, small step after small step.
Balancing her energy 'spoonies' is a daily task as she wants to do so much.
But Seirian is doing more than she realises, a lot of school, a little bit of Taekwondo, a little Badgers, swim lessons and more than a dash of turning into a tweenager with even more sass.
And we're all getting used to our knees hurting going up and down the stairs in our new home which is organised chaos, but we love the place ❤️
Thank you to S hair for Seirian's hair pamper, a lovely generous and caring gift which put a huge smile on her face and a spring in her step 💈✂️