Relate West Surrey

Relate West Surrey Relate West Surrey is a counselling organisation helping people with relationship difficulties includ

Dr Herbert Gray

Clergyman Dr Herbert Gray and a group of his colleagues became concerned about the impact of modern day life on marriage and began pioneering research into relationships. Hundreds of married people came forward for help and their work began. Committed to safeguarding the family as the basis of community life, Dr Gray delivered counselling from a small London office in 1943. Over 8

,000 clients were seen by a group of dedicated volunteers over the next five years. By the 1950s, as family life began to recover after the traumas of the war, the Marriage Guidance Council began to be recognised as a national institution providing dedicated and valuable work. From Marriage Guidance to Relate

On Valentine’s Day 1988, we relaunched as Relate in recognition of our wider relationship work with single people, cohabiting couples, same s*x couples, children and young people and families. In 2006 we opened The Relate Institute – our training academy for counsellors validated by the University of Hull.

75 years supporting the nation's relationships

In 2013 we celebrated 75 years of providing relationship support and dedicated the celebrations to our 'Relate Heroes' - staff in our Centres across the UK who work tirelessly to help their local communities. Today we have evolved into a modern, thriving organisation providing innovative responses to the needs of the communities we serve.

We've moved! Come follow us on our new page SearchLight Counselling & Therapy https://www.facebook.com/profile....
19/12/2025

We've moved! Come follow us on our new page SearchLight Counselling & Therapy https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61584909132930&locale=en_GB

SearchLight Counselling & Therapy

We’re proud to introduce SearchLight Counselling & Therapy — the new name for your local counselling service, continuing the work we’ve been doing in the community for many years.

Following the administration of Relate National and its subsequent acquisition by Family Action, we have chosen to move forward independently. This means that we have transitioned from Relate West Surrey to our new identity: SearchLight Counselling & Therapy.

Our hugely experienced local team will continue to ensure that our support for individuals, those in relationships, families, young people and children remains accessible, consistent, and rooted in the values you know and trust.

Our name has changed, but our counsellors, our services, and our commitment to you remain exactly the same.

SearchLight represents what we’ve always aimed to offer: a confidential, compassionate space where people can find clarity, connection, and support during challenging times. Our mission continues — to make high quality counselling available to everyone who needs it, without barriers.

Thank you for being part of our community. We’re excited to begin this new chapter with you. You can stay connected with us here on our social channels or visit our new website www.searchlightcounsellingandtherapy.org.uk to learn more about our work and how to get in touch.

Same team. Same support. A new name that reflects the light we help people find — and the way forward we find together.

✨ Something new is coming… ✨We’re thrilled to announce that we’ll be unveiling our new name and website soon.  Don’t wor...
04/12/2025

✨ Something new is coming… ✨

We’re thrilled to announce that we’ll be unveiling our new name and website soon.

Don’t worry—while our look is evolving, our heart remains the same. You’ll still find the same experienced, dedicated counselling team, committed to supporting you and your family.

👉 Keep an eye out here for the big reveal.
👉 Same trusted service, just a brighter name.

Its that time of year again and it can be wonderful… but it can also be overwhelming.The festive season brings school pl...
26/11/2025

Its that time of year again and it can be wonderful… but it can also be overwhelming.

The festive season brings school plays, endless emails, work parties, and family gatherings. For many, it’s a time of joy and connection. But it can also feel exhausting, pressured, or even lonely when the celebrations don’t match how we’re feeling inside.

At Relate West Surrey, we understand that behind the sparkle there can be stress. If you’re finding this season difficult, whether it’s juggling commitments, coping with family dynamics, or feeling isolated, our counselling services are here to support you.

You don’t have to carry it all alone. Talking it through can make a difference.

This year’s Self Care Week reminds us that true wellbeing means caring for both our mind and body. It’s not just about e...
20/11/2025

This year’s Self Care Week reminds us that true wellbeing means caring for both our mind and body. It’s not just about exercise or eating well, it’s about making space for emotional health alongside physical health.

At Relate West Surrey, we believe counselling is one of the most effective ways to nurture your mind, which in turn supports your body. Counselling can:

• Reduce stress: Talking through worries can ease tension that often shows up physically.

• Strengthen relationships: Healthy connections boost resilience and emotional balance.

• Build coping strategies: Counselling helps you manage challenges before they impact your wellbeing.

• Invest in long-term health: Caring for your mental health is as vital as caring for your physical health.

Self-care isn’t indulgence, it’s about sustainable habits that help us thrive. Counselling offers a safe, supportive space to pause, reflect, and realign.

This Self Care Week, why not take a step towards balance? Relate West Surrey is here to support you. By choosing to talk, you’re choosing to care for yourself.

Today we take time to remember and thank all those who served. We also recognise the lasting impact on mental health, an...
11/11/2025

Today we take time to remember and thank all those who served.

We also recognise the lasting impact on mental health, and stand with those still carrying invisible wounds.

Mental health support is available, and we’re here if you need us.

05/11/2025

Have you been thinking about counselling?

Whether you're navigating a personal challenge or feeling stuck in a relationship, you're not alone and support is available.

We currently have appointments open throughout November for:

Individual counselling - a space to explore your thoughts and feelings.

Or

Adult Relationship Counselling - for couples or individuals wanting to improve communication, rebuild trust, or navigate change.

Our qualified counsellors offer a safe, confidential environment where you can talk things through at your own pace.

Our available times and days are shown in the image so contact us today to book or find out more.

Relate West Surrey is a counselling organisation helping people with relationship difficulties includ

Half Term, Full House? Let’s Talk. Half term can be a wonderful time to reconnect, but it can also bring stress, squabbl...
23/10/2025

Half Term, Full House? Let’s Talk.

Half term can be a wonderful time to reconnect, but it can also bring stress, squabbles, and stretched patience. If your family is feeling the pressure, you're not alone.

Here are a few tips to help keep things calm:

🕰 Keep routines flexible but familiar
💬 Talk it out before tensions boil over
🧩 Plan one-on-one time with each child
🧘‍♀️ Take breaks — for them and for you

And if things feel overwhelming, we’re here to help. Relate West Surrey offers professional, confidential counselling for families, couples, young people (10-25) and Children (5-10).

📞 Book a session today and take the first step toward a calmer, more connected home.

Life can be complicated. Talking helps. Whether you're facing relationship challenges, family tensions, personal struggl...
16/10/2025

Life can be complicated. Talking helps.

Whether you're facing relationship challenges, family tensions, personal struggles, or just feeling overwhelmed, Relate West Surrey is here for you.

Our highly qualified counsellors offer a safe, confidential space to explore what’s going on and find a way forward.

We offer counselling services:
🧠 For individuals
🫱‍🫲 For couples
👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 For families
🌱 For young people
🧸 For children

We are here for you when you are ready to start talking.

Counselling, family mediation and relationship help in West Surrey Get started today New lower prices on all our counselling services! View Prices Our Annual General Meeting will take place on Thursday 13th November at 5pm. This year the AGM will be via Zoom.

10/10/2025

World Mental Health Day 2025

Today we shine a light on mental health, because everyone deserves to feel heard, supported, and understood.

At Relate West Surrey, we’re here to help you navigate life’s challenges. Whether you're facing anxiety, relationship struggles, grief, or simply need someone to talk to, our trained counsellors offer a safe, confidential space to explore your thoughts and feelings.

We provide counselling for individuals, couples, families, and young people, both in-person and online, so contact us today to start the conversation.

Let’s break the stigma. Let’s talk.

Relate West Surrey is a counselling organisation helping people with relationship difficulties includ

Feeling overwhelmed by uni life? You’re not alone. New city, new classes, new people… but what about your mental health?...
02/10/2025

Feeling overwhelmed by uni life? You’re not alone. New city, new classes, new people… but what about your mental health?

Starting university is exciting, but it can also be stressful, lonely, and confusing. It’s okay to feel anxious, homesick, or unsure. These feelings are normal, and you don’t have to face them alone.

Relate West Surrey’s Young Peoples counselling service (10-25 years) is here for YOU. Whether it’s stress, anxiety, or just needing someone to talk to, our highly qualified counsellors are here to help.

Contact us today to start the conversation. (link in our bio)

Counselling, family mediation and relationship help in West Surrey Get started today New lower prices on all our counselling services! View Prices We offer Professional Counselling Services – In-person and via Zoom Counsellors who understand you Our highly trained counsellors are

At Relate West Surrey, we understand how hard it can be when your relationship feels stuck. Whether you're facing consta...
25/09/2025

At Relate West Surrey, we understand how hard it can be when your relationship feels stuck. Whether you're facing constant arguments, carrying on in silence, or just feeling unheard — talking to someone can make all the difference.

Our experienced counsellors offer a safe, non-judgmental space to help you both feel seen, heard, and supported.

You don’t have to figure it out alone. We currently have in person and online sessions available so contact us today to start the conversation.

Counselling, family mediation and relationship help in West Surrey Get started today New lower prices on all our counselling services! View Prices We offer Professional Counselling Services – In-person and via Zoom Counsellors who understand you Our highly trained counsellors are

Do you need someone to talk to? You’re not alone, and you don’t have to keep it to yourself. Talking helps. At Relate We...
16/09/2025

Do you need someone to talk to? You’re not alone, and you don’t have to keep it to yourself. Talking helps.

At Relate West Surrey, we offer a safe, confidential space to talk about relationships, stress, anxiety, or anything that’s weighing on you. We’re here to listen and talking about it can make a difference.

Relate West Surrey offers counselling for individuals, couples, families, young people (10-25), and Children (5-10).

We’re here when you’re ready to talk because your feelings matter.

Counselling, family mediation and relationship help in West Surrey Get started today New lower prices on all our counselling services! View Prices We offer Professional Counselling Services – In-person and via Zoom Counsellors who understand you Our highly trained counsellors are

Address

26 Commercial Way
Woking
GU216EN

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 9:30pm
Tuesday 9am - 9:30pm
Wednesday 9am - 9:30pm
Thursday 9am - 9:30pm
Friday 9am - 4pm
Saturday 9am - 1pm

Telephone

+44 1483 721173

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