White Candle Counselling

White Candle Counselling Babyloss, miscarriage, TFMR & infertility counsellor Supporting people going through babyloss, miscarriage, TFMR & anxiety.

Running my own private practice, hosting support groups at the Cradle Charity, Foundation Course for Infertility Counsellors, Foundation for Infant Loss training.

Some words are used often when we talk about grief and difficult life experiences.But their meaning can feel very differ...
31/03/2026

Some words are used often when we talk about grief and difficult life experiences.

But their meaning can feel very different when you are the one living through it.

Sometimes what people need most is not advice — but someone willing to sit with them in their experience.

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Sometimes people only acknowledge the loss of the outcome.But many individuals and couples are also grieving the months ...
23/03/2026

Sometimes people only acknowledge the loss of the outcome.

But many individuals and couples are also grieving the months or years of effort they invested along the way.

The appointments, the treatments, the emotional energy, the hope.

If you feel sadness or anger about the time and effort that feels “wasted,” your feelings are valid.

You are not alone in that experience.

When life feels overwhelming, your mind and body may be asking for a pause.Taking a moment to slow down, breathe, and gr...
18/03/2026

When life feels overwhelming, your mind and body may be asking for a pause.

Taking a moment to slow down, breathe, and ground yourself can help create space between you and the stress you’re carrying.

Small pauses can make a difference.





Mother’s Day can be a beautiful celebration.But for many people in our community, it can also bring grief, longing, or q...
15/03/2026

Mother’s Day can be a beautiful celebration.
But for many people in our community, it can also bring grief, longing, or quiet reflection.

If today feels heavy, please know you are not alone.

Motherhood exists in many forms
– through love
– through loss
– through hope.

And every one of those stories deserves to be acknowledged.

🕯️ Holding space for you today.

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Sometimes pregnancy loss is not immediately clear.Many people spend days or weeks in what can feel like “limbo land” — w...
12/03/2026

Sometimes pregnancy loss is not immediately clear.

Many people spend days or weeks in what can feel like “limbo land” — waiting for another scan, blood test, or clearer answers.

This space between hope and fear can be incredibly stressful and emotionally draining.

If you are in this uncertain season, your feelings are valid. You don’t have to navigate it alone.






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You replay every word.You analyze their tone.You wonder if they missed something.When you’ve experienced infertility or ...
09/03/2026

You replay every word.
You analyze their tone.
You wonder if they missed something.

When you’ve experienced infertility or loss, uncertainty can feel unbearable. Your mind would rather prepare for the worst than be caught off guard again.

But not every anxious thought is intuition.
Sometimes it’s fear trying to protect a heart that’s already been hurt.

04/03/2026

Instead of asking, “What’s wrong with us?” try asking,
“What are we both carrying right now?”
Name the weight before you judge the distance.

Hard seasons can create space between you.
But with gentleness and support, they can also bring deeper understanding.

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When you’ve experienced loss, your body and heart don’t always move at the same pace.You might deeply love your partner…...
02/03/2026

When you’ve experienced loss, your body and heart don’t always move at the same pace.

You might deeply love your partner… and still feel yourself withdrawing.
You might want comfort… and also flinch from touch.

This is not failure.
It’s grief protecting you.

Closeness can return … but only when safety is rebuilt first. 🕯

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Does distance mean the relationship is failing?Not necessarily. It often means both people are hurting — just in differe...
27/02/2026

Does distance mean the relationship is failing?

Not necessarily. It often means both people are hurting — just in different ways.

Gentle reminder:
You can be grieving and still deeply love each other.
Distance doesn’t always mean disconnection. Sometimes it means you both need space to survive the pain.

🕯️ Support can help you find your way back to each other.

Many people carry phrases from medical appointments for years — even when the intention wasn’t to harm.Information given...
07/02/2026

Many people carry phrases from medical appointments for years — even when the intention wasn’t to harm.
Information given without empathy can feel blaming, dismissive, or deeply painful.

If certain words still stay with you, it makes sense.
Your experience mattered, and so did how you were spoken to. 🤍

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06/02/2026

Due dates can still hurt — even years after loss.
They can bring back memories, grief, and love all at once.
If a date on the calendar still feels heavy, you’re not going backwards.
You’re remembering. 🤍

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Warrington

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Monday 8:30am - 5pm
Tuesday 8:30am - 7pm
Wednesday 8:30am - 7pm
Thursday 8:30am - 5pm

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