10/10/2026
🌍💜🦋 WORLD MENTAL HEALTH DAY 2026 🦋💜🌍
10 October 2026
Theme: “Lived Experiences Heard: Real Voices, Real Change.”
A Special Message from Princess Folashade Alonge, Founder & CEO, De Butterfly
Today, as we commemorate World Mental Health Day, I want to remind the world of one powerful truth:
Behind every emotional struggle is a human story. Behind every silence is a voice waiting to be heard. And behind every voice is the possibility of change.
For me, this year’s theme is not just a slogan. It speaks directly to my heart, my journey, and the very foundation upon which De Butterfly was built.
Over the years, I have sat with women who have survived unimaginable trauma …..women who have experienced female ge***al mutilation (FGM), domestic abuse, displacement, trafficking, poverty, discrimination, and the painful realities of seeking asylum.
I have listened to women whose tears spoke louder than words. Women who carried generations of cultural silence, shame, and emotional wounds. Women who were expected to remain strong even when they were falling apart inside.
Yet, I have also witnessed extraordinary courage, resilience, healing, and transformation.
These women are not just statistics. They are mothers, daughters, sisters, leaders, survivors, and powerful voices of change.
At De Butterfly, we believe that healing begins when people feel safe enough to speak, supported enough to be vulnerable, and valued enough to be heard.
Through our culturally sensitive, trauma-informed counselling, peer support, and community wellbeing programmes, we continue to create spaces where women are not judged by their experiences but recognised for their humanity, dignity, and strength.
But today, I want us to go further.
Listening is important, but listening without action is not enough.
We must move beyond inviting people to tell their stories and begin involving them in shaping the services, policies, and decisions that affect their lives.
We must challenge the stigma surrounding mental and emotional health, particularly within Black African communities, where cultural expectations and the pressure to appear strong can sometimes prevent people from seeking help.
We must recognise that lived experience is expertise, and those who have walked through pain often hold invaluable wisdom about what meaningful support should look like.
To every woman struggling silently today, I want to say:
💜 Your story matters.
💜 Your pain deserves compassion, not judgement.
💜 Your voice deserves to be heard.
💜 Seeking support is an act of courage, not weakness.
💜 Your past does not define your future.
And to our communities, professionals, policymakers, and leaders, my challenge is simple:
Do not just speak for us. Sit with us. Listen to us. Work with us. And make room for us at the decision-making table.
As we mark World Mental Health Day, let us build a world where emotional wellbeing is not a privilege, culturally appropriate support is accessible, and nobody has to suffer in silence.
At De Butterfly, we will continue turning hidden wounds into opportunities for healing, isolation into connection, and lived experiences into meaningful change.
Because every voice matters. Every story deserves dignity. And every woman deserves the opportunity to heal and thrive.
Happy World Mental Health Day! 🌍💜
Princess Folashade Alonge
Founder & CEO | Lead Counsellor/Psychotherapist
De Butterfly
🦋 Creating safe spaces. Restoring dignity. Amplifying voices. Transforming lives.