11/06/2026
“Don’t let the potential reactions of strangers put you off from what could be a life changing trip.”
On a recent trip to India, campaigner David experienced something many people with a visible difference will recognise: unwanted comments and questions from strangers. Today, David shares his experiences:
"I travelled solo to India late in 2024, and was looking forward to everything that normally comes with an adventure like that: the energy of the cities, the calm of the holy sites and, of course, the delicious food.
"I experienced all those things and more. But some days were overshadowed by people making observations and asking questions about my visible difference, which is scarring on my forehead and nose.
"While I was never once treated unkindly or mocked, it was still exasperating, especially when the comments came four or five times a day. It was a level of attention I hadn't anticipated.
"When I spoke to an Indian friend about it, he explained that these comments were often culturally acceptable and usually came from curiosity, concern or a desire to start a conversation, rather than from cruelty or a wish to hurt me.
"Holidays are precious and often once-in-a-lifetime opportunities. While I was upset by the reality of the situation, I knew that I had to make a conscious decision to immerse myself in the experiences I had looked forward to for so long. That wasn't about brushing the comments aside – we all know that can be difficult, if not impossible. It was about giving myself the best chance to experience everything the trip had to offer.
"The vast majority of my time in India was still a fascinating and rewarding experience in the way only travelling can be, and a great reminder that taking a trip is always worth doing, even when we don't feel like it."
If you're considering a trip but feel anxious about people's reactions to your appearance, remember: you deserve to explore the world too.
Our online advice and guidance can help you manage curiosity and feel prepared: https://social.changingfaces.org.uk/U8Td4x