02/09/2026
This week is a big milestone for so many families, and especially for Lola, who started school for the very first time today. š
Her mum, Lucy, shares:
"Like so many parents, I felt a mix of excitement and nerves taking her to school for her first day. But Lola was so excited to start, and walked in with a confidence that made me so proud. She didn't look back once!
"From an early age, we've tried to give Lola the confidence to know that her birthmark is just one part of who she is.
"We've had our challenges this year, and one of the hardest parts of parenting a child with a visible difference is helping them understand the difference between curiosity and judgement. It's difficult enough for an adult, never mind a four-year-old!
"Through the conversations we have and the example we set at home, I hope she'll continue to learn what feels kind, what feels respectful, and when something crosses a boundary.
"There might be a few challenges ahead as Lola starts this new chapter, but the confidence and resilience we have built from an early age will help her remember that she belongs, exactly as she is."
We're wishing every child starting school this week the very best of luck as they begin this new chapter. ā¤ļø
Starting school can bring lots of excitement, but it can also bring new questions and worries for parents of children with a visible difference.
If you're supporting a child through this new chapter, join our Building your child's confidence and self-esteem when they have a visible difference webinar. You'll hear from Lucy, who'll be sharing her family's experience, alongside practical confidence-building tips and techniques from the Changing Faces team.
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Wednesday 14 October, online
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Sign up: https://social.changingfaces.org.uk/82zP6J