20/04/2026
💙 A Very Honest Update… From Me 💙
This is probably one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to write, but I feel it’s important to be open and honest with you all.
I know I’ve been very quiet on here, and I’m so sorry for the lack of replies and interaction. Please know it’s never out of lack of care — quite the opposite.
After this year’s pop-up, I experienced what I can only describe as a breakdown. I gave absolutely everything I had — physically, emotionally and mentally — and afterwards, I just had nothing left. It completely floored me. I felt exhausted in a way I can’t quite put into words, and it’s taken me weeks to slowly start finding my way back again.
Behind Project Prom, I’m not just “Vicki who runs the project”… I’m a wife, and I’m a mum. And as a mum to a child on the spectrum, life can sometimes feel incredibly overwhelming. I’ve always tried to be the person who can juggle everything — spinning all the plates, keeping everything going — but the truth is, this time it all became too much.
And that’s been a really hard thing to admit.
I’m taking some time now to gently rebuild myself, to rest, and to focus on my family and my own wellbeing. I am getting there, slowly, and I promise I will be back — replying to messages, being present, and doing what I love again.
For now, I’ve made the decision to pause donations while I take this time to reset. Once all borrowed items have been returned, I’ll begin accepting donations again — likely from June — and I’ll keep you all updated.
Thank you for your patience, your kindness, and your understanding during this time. Project Prom means the world to me, but so do the people behind it — including myself and my family.
And if there’s one thing I’d gently ask of everyone, it’s this…In a world where you can be anything, please be kind. You never truly know what someone might be carrying. 💛
With love,Vicki 💙