13/06/2026
Today I had a conversation with a follower from Central America about life after losing our sight. What amazed me was that although we live in different countries and cultures, we found ourselves talking about many of the same experiences. We talked about loneliness, isolation, friendships that faded away, and how difficult it can be when support isn’t there when you need it most.
People often tell us, “Just be positive,” or remind us that everyone faces challenges in life. And they’re right. Every human being experiences difficulties, disappointments, loss, and struggles. The thing many people don’t fully understand is that blind and disabled people experience those same human realities without sight, or full mobility, and for many of us without any quote and quote family support, or inclusion.
We know we’re not the only ones who struggle. We don’t believe our problems are more important than anyone else’s. But when you’re blind, or have a disability, every challenge can come with additional barriers that many people never have to think about. A sighted person facing a difficult situation can often jump in the car, drive somewhere, visit a friend, or change their environment. For many blind people, even simple activities require transportation, accessibility, planning, and frequently help from others.
This is not about negativity or asking for sympathy. It’s about acknowledging a reality that many blind and disabled people live every day. Positivity matters. Hope matters. Gratitude matters. But positivity alone, or, a statement like "the blind are not the only ones who have life difficulties," doesn’t create accessibility. Positivity alone doesn’t replace friendships that have disappeared. Positivity alone doesn’t remove the barriers that many of us face anytime we decide to participate in a community event, or activity.
What many blind and other disabled people need isn’t pity. It’s understanding. It’s inclusion. It’s being invited, considered, and remembered. I believe most people genuinely mean well when they suggest us to "just be positive because we all have life difficulties," but unless someone has lived without sight, or any other physical disability, it can be difficult to fully understand how blindness or a disability affects everyday life and the way we navigate challenges that everyone faces.
And if you’re feeling isolated today—whether you’re blind, disabled, or simply going through a difficult season of life—I want you to know that you’re not alone. just my follower from Central America, I live a similar situation. Reach out to those who you know they could offer some support, seek out community, focus on meaningful relationships, and remember that your worth is not determined by who stays or who leaves. We all need connection, purpose, and belonging.
No matter where we come from, we all face challenges. Some of us simply face those human challenges while navigating a world we cannot see, or eassily participate in. May we all do a better job of listening, including, supporting, and reminding one another that none of us are meant to walk through life alone. ❤️
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