21/09/2026
It can be overwhelming to know where to start when a friend says, “I don’t need God. I’ve created my own meaning in life.”
I know that threw me for a long time.
But perhaps there’s a better place to start than trying to prove that their life has no meaning.
Because actually, I think it’s wonderful that they want their life to mean something.
The interesting question is: What are we building that meaning on?
We can find deep meaning in our careers, our families, our relationships, our creativity, our passions, our desire to make the world a better place. And these things really are good.
But are they big enough to carry the weight of ultimate meaning?
Tim Keller made the point that the meaning we create for ourselves can be “too thin” to withstand suffering.
What does he mean?
Imagine building your whole sense of worth around your career. What happens when you lose your job?
Or around your family. What happens when someone lets you down, or things don’t turn out as you hoped?
Or around your appearance, health or success. What happens when those things begin to fade?
The problem isn’t that these things are meaningless.
The problem is that they were never meant to carry the weight of ultimate meaning.
And this is where I think the gospel is much bigger than we sometimes make it.
The gospel isn’t simply, “Believe in God because otherwise your life has no meaning.”
It’s the astonishing news that your life already has meaning because you are known, loved and created by God.
Your worth doesn’t have to be achieved.
Your identity doesn’t have to be constructed.
And the things you love don’t have to become your gods.
They can become what they were always meant to be: good gifts, pointing beyond themselves to the One who gave them.
And when suffering comes — as it inevitably does — the Christian hope isn’t that God will give us a pain-free life.
It’s that suffering doesn’t get the final word.
The God revealed in Jesus enters our suffering, carries our sin and shame, defeats death and promises to make all things new.
That’s a BIG gospel. And that sounds like GOOD NEWS to those who need relief from constru