06/06/2026
DEALING WITH SET-BACKS
Things aren’t always straightforward, especially for those leaving prison. Often, there is unresolved trauma, substance issues, homelessness, and many other complicating factors that can make life on the outside difficult. Unfortunately, things can, and sometimes do, go wrong.
During mentoring training, we often talk about ‘the Vicious Cycle’. As part of our trauma-informed practice, we recognise that relapse oftentimes is an important part of a much longer story of recovery and rehabilitation and can offer valuable opportunities for reflection and growth.
Mentors provide a vital lifeline in this regard. When things go wrong, it is easy to forget all of the progress and positive achievements that have come before. It’s easy for someone to write themselves off as being incapable of change. Our volunteer mentors are there to remind our clients of all the progress they have made, even in spite of setbacks and challenges, and to help them recognise that they are both capable and deserving of change.
Unlike many other statutory services, we are not time limited. Our volunteer mentors will work with a client for as long as they want help, even if they get caught back up in the cycle of re-offending and end up back in prison. Having someone consistently in your corner can make a world of difference – to know that there is someone there with you, through the good times and the bad, who wants to see you succeed and won’t give up on you, can be incredibly powerful.
Our mentors help our clients to reflect on what went wrong, to take accountability and responsibility, and to create strategies for overcoming those same challenges in the future. Where needed, our mentors can also signpost clients to specialist services.
Come back tomorrow to find out how our mentors help clients to set positive goals for the future.
If you have the empathy and compassion to help prison leavers navigate these issues, contact our mentor co-ordinator, Jack, to sign up for our mentor training on the 27th June and 11th July, at [email protected]