26/10/2026
Have you ever posted or talked about the violence that women and girls face, only to be met with a defensive but ‘it’s not all men’?
The men (and some women) who say this often don’t mean to minimise the dangers women face. They see the issue in black and white; there are good men and bad men and they, understandably, don’t want to be judged as a bad man.
The bad men are the rapists, the paedophiles, the domestic abusers and that is not who they are.
What we need them to understand is that violence against women and girls isn’t a black and white issue. There simply isn’t a majority of ‘good men’ vs a few ‘bad men’. We need them to listen and to understand the scale of the problem so they can be true allies and become part of the solution to create real safety for women and girls.
We’ve put together this simple graphic for you to share that highlights the many forms that male violence against women can take. It’s definitely ‘not all men’ but it is far more men than some expect.
This isn’t about pitting women and against men, it’s about education and creating true allyship with those that want to be part of the change.
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