29/06/2026
At MBL’s 10th Adoption Dialogue, nearly 40 participants from across the UK, China, the US, Canada, Australia, Norway and beyond came together to sit with a question many adoptees have heard throughout their lives: “You are so lucky.”
But what does that really mean?
Through personal stories, research, and honest reflection, our speakers explored the realities that often remain unseen — the coexistence of love and loss, gratitude and grief, belonging and searching.
From Shen Yang’s reflections as a child born outside the One Child Policy, to Cat’s challenge to the “lucky adoptee” narrative, to Shaosheen’s moving journey towards a more nuanced understanding of adoption, one message emerged clearly: Adoption stories are rarely simple.
Adoptees can feel grateful and still acknowledge loss.
They can celebrate what adoption has brought while also speaking honestly about what it has taken away.
And sometimes, life exists somewhere in between.
Thank you to everyone who joined us and contributed with openness, care, and courage.
Because every story deserves to be heard.
🎥 Read the full recap and watch the recording via our website:
https://www.mothersbridge.org/blog/lucky-unlucky-or-somewhere-in-between
On 14 June 2026, The Mothers’ Bridge of Love (MBL) successfully hosted the 10th Adoption Dialogue. Nearly 40 participants from the United Kingdom, China, the United States, Canada, Australia, Norway, and beyond joined the online event to explore a question that appears simple, yet carries profound...