15/04/2026
1. What if the sexual abuse of a child involves their feet only?
2. But we have taught them to focus on “private areas” only.
3. Do we need to rethink this?
People who exploit children may not be interested in “private areas.”
Maybe they have a preference for a specific body part, i.e. feet, or particular clothing, i.e. shoes, certain outfits, and that’s what they focus on and ask for.
So this raises an important question. Are we getting our conversations with children correct?
Because from a child or teenager’s perspective, feet, outfits, and all this adult attention doesn’t break the “rules” we’ve taught them.
And when that attention is something they may not be getting at home, they don’t want it to stop.
What do you think?
I know it’s not always easy to comment on posts like this, but in my opinion, these are the conversations we need to have if we’re serious about preparing children for the dangers of today’s world.
I have shared my thoughts in the comments section.
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I’m now spending time rethinking my primary school sessions for the bookings I’ve got coming up this month.
I don’t think what I currently have is good enough — or at least, it needs changing as I reflect on concepts like the one in this post.
If you check out the recording of me delivering a session to Year 5 children (aged 9–10), you will see what I mean.
To watch: https://youtu.be/JJyH8nTjTWo?si=1CheERqMeqwwS1g6
To listen: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast/how-i-got-30-kids-hooked-on-safeguarding-with-a-clever-gamin
When I watch it back, I see it’s too childish and simple for them and doesn’t cover the nuances. I would say it is more suited to ages 5–7.
I’m also repeating a lot of what the school would’ve (should’ve) already done, which is not why you bring a speaker in.
My USP is my story and I should use it more (in a child friendly way).
This will all make sense once you see the recording.
Thank you for being part of this work. I am one mind, with one set of ideas — and this needs more than that. It needs everyone’s input.