Leicester, Leicestershire & Rutland Sands

01/10/2026

TFMR (Termination For Medical Reasons) is one of the most devastating choices a parent will ever have to make. We want to remind you that we are here for you, and we have dedicated support for anyone affected by TFMR.

We know that TFMR can bring another layer of complex emotions and feelings to baby loss. It is so important to connect with others going through a similar experience.

We are here if you ever need to talk 💜🧡

Thank you to Pheonix’ mum, Tanika, for sharing her experience of TFMR…

“We had a TFMR in May 2025. Our baby Phoenix was born at 25+1 weeks. He was the most perfect little boy ever. I battle with the 'choice' I made every day but I know given that choice a million times over, it was the right one for him. Phoenix was our second (miscarriage with our 1st) and I’m now trying to accept when the right time is to start again without Phoenix ever feeling he wasn't good enough for his mummy.”

If you would like your quote to be featured, please leave it in the comments below 👇 If you would like your baby's name to be mentioned, please don't hesitate to add it to your quote.

01/10/2026

Always loved, never forgotten x

30/09/2026

🕯️ Wave of Light Service 🕯️

On Thursday 15th October, from 6.00pm–7.30pm, we will be holding a special Wave of Light Service at Loughborough Crematorium, to remember all of the little ones who have touched our lives.

The evening will include:

🤍 A gentle service of remembrance
🕯️ Our Wave of Light candle lighting at 7.00pm
☕ Refreshments
🌿 Keepsakes for families to take home
💌 The opportunity to write your little one’s name or a special message to place on our Memory Tree
🤍 A member of the Sands charity will also be joining us to offer support and information.

During the service, we will be reading aloud the names of babies and little ones being remembered. If you would like your little one’s name to be included, please comment below with their name. 🤍

Whether you have experienced baby loss recently or many years ago, we welcome you to join us as we come together to remember, reflect and light a candle for the little ones who will always be part of our lives.

Everyone is welcome. 🤍

29/09/2026

The first moments after a baby dies can be the only opportunity parents have to make memories with their baby.

As well as keepsakes like photos and memory boxes, healthcare staff can create opportunities for parents who wish to spend time with their baby to care for, parent, and bond with them, through meaningful moments together.

New, free online training is now available for NHS staff across the UK to learn more about the importance of memory making, and opportunities in different settings and different stages of loss.

Access our free e-learning on the NHS Learning Hub – available anytime, anywhere.

Start learning today - link in the comments below.

29/09/2026

From ribbon displays to debates, politicians across the UK will soon be marking Baby Loss Awareness Week.

In Westminster, the baby loss debate on Monday 12 October will mark the 10 year anniversary of the debate in the UK Parliament.

Will you ask your MPs to attend and wear a baby loss awareness ribbon badge?

It’s quick and easy ⬇️

- Click the link in the comments
- Enter your details and postcode
- An email to your local MP will be automatically generated
- You can choose to personalise your email before hitting send

The more emails MPs receive, the more likely they are to attend the debate to raise awareness of the impact of pregnancy and baby loss and the vital work that is needed to improve pregnancy outcomes and to save babies’ lives.

➡️Contact your MP - link in the comments.

28/09/2026

Don’t forget our group meeting is tonight x Hope you can make it xx

26/09/2026

23/09/2026

This Black Maternal Mental Health Week, share your experiences of care to help drive meaningful change.

Poor maternity and neonatal care doesn't just fail families in the moment, it can deepen the trauma of losing a baby.

Last year, over 80% of bereaved parents told Sands they needed mental health support after their loss. Only 1 in 6 could get it through the NHS.

Black parents told us, racism and stereotyping made it harder to be heard and to advocate for care. In 2023, half of parents who took part in our Listening Project believed they'd received worse care, or been treated differently, because of their ethnicity.

Your experience matters. Share it with us and help us push maternity and neonatal services to do better for Black bereaved parents and families.

Bereaved parents and families can take our survey - link in the comments below.