Dementia Friendly Horsforth

Dementia Friendly Horsforth Raising awareness of Dementia in Horsforth since 2015.

Our team members Judith and Chris enjoyed their day at Horsforth Manor talking to residents, staff and visitors about ou...
15/08/2026

Our team members Judith and Chris enjoyed their day at Horsforth Manor talking to residents, staff and visitors about our work

Dementia Friendly Horsforth are here with a stall at Horsforth Manor until 2pm today please come by and see us and learn...
15/08/2026

Dementia Friendly Horsforth are here with a stall at Horsforth Manor until 2pm today please come by and see us and learn about when we do

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09/08/2026

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Should you lie to someone with dementia?

Questions like “Where’s my mum?” or “When am I going home?” can be challenging and emotional for families and carers. Dementia can affect how a person experiences time and reality, so what feels true to them in that moment may be very different from what we know to be true.

Rather than focusing on being right, it can help to focus on the feelings behind the question. Offering reassurance, comfort and understanding can often be more important than correcting facts. This could look like:

- "No, your mum isn't coming. She died years ago." Vs "You seem to be thinking about your mum today. What was she like?"

- "Nobody has stolen your handbag." Vs "That sounds worrying. Let's see if we can find it together."

- "You're retired. You don't need to go to work." Vs "You always worked hard. What did you enjoy most about your job?"

Every situation is different, and there is no right or wrong way to respond to difficult questions.

If you're supporting someone living with dementia, remember to be kind to yourself too – caring can be rewarding, but it can also be incredibly challenging.

[Image description: A light blue infographic with text centred in a white circle that reads “What to do when someone with dementia asks a difficult question”. Surrounding this are four separate points that read: Acknowledge feelings (validate how they feel, even if the facts aren’t as they believe); offer comfort and reassurance (a kind response can help reduce anxiety and distress); listen to what they're really saying (it may be a need for reassurance, comfort or connection); and gently redirect if needed (change the focus to something positive or enjoyable). Each point is illustrated with an icon, such as a heart, an ear, a person hugging, and arrows.]

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02/08/2026

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Families affected by dementia are saying the same thing: a diagnosis, a leaflet, and sent home.

Unfortunately, these reactions aren’t rare. They’re the reality for thousands.

That's why we need to see an 18-week target from referral to diagnosis, with everyone receiving a care plan and appropriate treatment.

We’ll keep pushing for better - because a leaflet is not enough.

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We're all set up and ready for Horsforth Festival to start at 12pm
27/06/2026

We're all set up and ready for Horsforth Festival to start at 12pm

We are pleased to confirm that Dementia Friendly Horsforth will be at Horsforth Festival from 12pm on Saturday 27th June...
24/06/2026

We are pleased to confirm that Dementia Friendly Horsforth will be at Horsforth Festival from 12pm on Saturday 27th June. Feel free to come by to see us.

Today our Chairman Chris delivered a Dementia Friends Information session to the Mothers Union at St Margaret's Parish C...
16/06/2026

Today our Chairman Chris delivered a Dementia Friends Information session to the Mothers Union at St Margaret's Parish Centre in Horsforth. Making 9 more Dementia Friends

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