29/05/2026
What having jelly and ice cream reminded me this week…
We’ve had such a lovely week in Norfolk with my parents, my brother and his family celebrating my 40th. We had a full on 90s-style night but honestly the whole week felt a bit 90s.
Games, break dancing competitions, table games, cricket outside, children on bikes, long walks, sandy feet and everyone helping themselves to food from bowls in the middle of the table.
One night we had jelly and ice cream and it instantly took me back. Although I was born in the 80s, the 90s feel like my real childhood memories. Slower days with more freedom and creativity. More time outside and more made-up games that somehow lasted for hours?
Watching my children and their cousins this week really reminded me how much childhood has changed. Childhood feels so curated these days. Everything planned to the nth degree, organised fun, screens and constant entertainment.
And yes, some of it is lovely and children absolutely benefit from so many opportunities and experiences. Some children also really need routines and predictability too. I’m definitely not anti screen! But I am about balance!
And that’s what seems to have gone off kilter … this week reminded me that children still really need the simple things. Space to get bored, make things up, move their bodies, connect and just play. Low cost and no cost activities.
Less fancy pants set ups and more jelly and ice cream đź’ś
What do you think? Do you remember jelly and ice cream at parties?đź’–
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