It’s Never You

It’s Never You 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗗𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗲 𝗕𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿
Supporting families of seriously ill children.
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Campaigning for 𝗛𝘂𝗴𝗵’𝘀 𝗟𝗮𝘄 🇬🇧 & reform across Parliament 🤝 Financial, emotional & mental health support for parents and siblings

🚨BREAKING 🚨 This week, we took another important step in turning lived experience into lasting change.Alongside our work...
23/06/2026

🚨BREAKING 🚨 This week, we took another important step in turning lived experience into lasting change.

Alongside our work on Hugh’s Law and Hugh’s Report, we have now submitted three new proposed amendments to the Health Bill currently progressing through Parliament with the help of the brilliant Chris Hinchliff MP. The Bill is one of the biggest pieces of NHS legislation in years, making it an opportunity to improve how families are supported when a child becomes seriously ill. (GOV.UK⁠)

The three amendments focus on areas that thousands of families tell us are currently missing:

1️⃣ Family Support Following Diagnosis

No parent should be left to navigate a life-changing diagnosis alone. Our amendment would require families to be offered practical support, information on financial help, employment rights, mental health services and a clear support plan from the earliest stages of treatment.

2️⃣ Parent Mental Health and Bereavement Support

The mental health impact on parents is often overlooked. We are proposing a duty on NHS providers to identify and support parental trauma during treatment and after the death of a child, including proactive contact and opt-out bereavement support.

3️⃣ Improved Communication Around Diagnostic Imaging

Where scans are inconclusive or there is uncertainty around a potentially serious diagnosis, parents deserve transparency and involvement. Our amendment seeks to ensure families are informed, involved and given the opportunity for timely re-imaging when clinically appropriate.

These proposals have been built from the experiences of hundreds of families we have worked with throughout experience, It's Never You Charity and the early work of The Parent Alliance UK

For too long, the focus has been solely on treating the child. Of course that must always remain the priority. But when a child is seriously ill, the wellbeing of parents and siblings matters too.

Whether these amendments are accepted or not, the conversation has now started in Parliament again . We will attempt to move these through both houses, and you know me by now, I won’t stop till we are listened to.

Real change begins when those who have lived through the system help shape it.

One child. One family. One better future at a time.

For more info please check out the bills page - https://lnkd.in/eH6Xjzms

On 3rd July, hundreds of children’s shoes belonging to children who have sadly left us too soon will fill Parliament Squ...
23/06/2026

On 3rd July, hundreds of children’s shoes belonging to children who have sadly left us too soon will fill Parliament Square.

Each pair of shoes will represent a child who should still be here. A life remembered. A family forever changed.

But this is about more than remembrance.

It is about asking why, when a parent loses a child, there is no automatic mental health support, no guaranteed support for siblings, and financial support can disappear almost overnight despite the trauma continuing long afterwards.

We will stand together to remember our children and to call for a new framework of support for bereaved parents and families.

If you have lost a child, please join us. Bring your child’s shoes if you still have them, or any child’s shoes as a symbol of the path our children walked and the road we now walk without them.

📍 Parliament Square, Westminster
📅 Friday 3rd July
⏰ 10:00am

Until you have walked in our shoes, you can never truly understand. 🧡

DM me or email [email protected]

If you are a bereavement charity or know someone who wants to join us then please do get in contact

RememberingOurChildren ParliamentSquare ChangeForParents

We Need You. Mental health is one of the most important and often overlooked issues facing parents of seriously ill chil...
22/06/2026

We Need You. Mental health is one of the most important and often overlooked issues facing parents of seriously ill children and those who have been bereaved.

Behind every diagnosis is a mother, a father, a sibling and a family trying to cope with fear, trauma, uncertainty and grief. Yet too often, support comes too late, or not at all.

On Tuesday 7th July, The Parents Alliance UK will come together at Church House, Westminster to discuss how we can improve mental health support for families, influence policy and ensure lived experience helps shape the future.

If you are a parent, professional, policymaker or someone passionate about making a difference, we need your voice in the room.

Together, we can help ensure that no family faces these challenges alone.

📍 Church House, Westminster
📅 Tuesday 7th July
📧 [email protected]

Because improving mental health support isn’t just important it’s essential. 💙

The It’s Never You | Parents Deserve Better Golf Day is back for its 4th year. This year’s event holds special significa...
22/06/2026

The It’s Never You | Parents Deserve Better Golf Day is back for its 4th year. This year’s event holds special significance as it takes place on the fifth anniversary of Hugh’s passing.

We would love our friends, supporters, campaigners and families to join us for a day of golf, fundraising and remembrance as we celebrate the life of our little boy and continue the work being done by charity in his name.

The event will be hosted at the renowned Seve Ballesteros-designed The Shire London London, just off junc 23 of the M25.

Whether you have supported us from the beginning or have recently joined our journey, we would be honoured to have you with us on this special day.

Friday 18th September
The Shire London
£549 per team with 100% of proceeds going to support parents of seriously ill children

For more information or to enter a team, please email [email protected].

21/06/2026

Hugh’s Law is 3 years old today.

On 21 June 2023, our former MP, Sir Oliver Heald, introduced the very first version of Hugh’s Law into the House of Commons as a Ten Minute Rule Bill.

At the time, it was just an idea. A belief that parents of seriously ill children deserved better support when their world is turned upside down.

Three years later, Hugh’s Law has gone from a ten minute rule bill to being included in an official Government consultation. More than 20,000 employees across the UK are now covered by workplace policies based on its principles.

What started as one family’s experience has become a national conversation about how we support families during some of the hardest days of their lives.

Not a bad effort 😮‍💨😅 And we’re not finished yet.

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21/06/2026

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Tomorrow, plenty of dads will wake up to cards, presents, breakfast in bed and kids jumping all over them.Some dads will...
20/06/2026

Tomorrow, plenty of dads will wake up to cards, presents, breakfast in bed and kids jumping all over them.

Some dads will wake up and think about the child who isn’t there. They’re still dads.

And Father’s Day doesn’t change that.

As men, we’re pretty good at getting on with things. We keep busy. We keep moving. We tell people we’re alright, even when we’re not.

The truth is, many bereaved dads will think about their child more tomorrow than they do on most days. I hear dads ask, “Why mine?”

Why was it my child? Why did our family end up here? Those thoughts don’t make you bitter. They don’t make you a bad person.

They make you a dad who misses his child.

When you see other families together, it isn’t jealousy. It’s grief. It’s seeing moments that should have belonged to your family too.

The football matches you’ll never watch together. The pint you’ll never share. The grandchild you’ll never hold. The future that should have been.

Most dads won’t say any of this out loud. We’ll crack a joke, change the subject, hit another golf ball, spend another hour in the gym or have another pint. But underneath it all is the same thing.

Love. Love for a child who should still be here. If tomorrow is hard, that’s OK. Go to the gym. Play golf. Go for a walk. Visit their grave. Sit quietly with your thoughts. Talk about them. Or don’t.

There is no right way to get through Father’s Day. Just don’t carry it all on your own. To every dad waking up without their child tomorrow, we see you.

Happy Father’s Day. You’re still their dad. You always will be.

This bag of flour will go off before a parent whose child is diagnosed with cancer or serious illness today receives any...
20/06/2026

This bag of flour will go off before a parent whose child is diagnosed with cancer or serious illness today receives any financial help.

Think about that for a moment.

This flour has a best-before date of 27 December 2026.

Yet under the current system, many parents will spend months navigating applications, assessments and delays before any meaningful financial support arrives. In that time, they may have already reduced their hours, taken unpaid leave, or left work altogether to be by their child’s bedside.

When your child is fighting for their life, the last thing you should be fighting is bureaucracy. No parent should have to choose between being at hospital and paying the bills.

That is why we are campaigning for change through Hugh’s Law.

Because support should start when a child is diagnosed, not when a form is finally processed.

Imagine being told your child has cancer today, and knowing this bag of flour will expire before help arrives.

On 3rd July, hundreds of children’s shoes will fill the green outside Parliament. Not because of the road we have walked...
20/06/2026

On 3rd July, hundreds of children’s shoes will fill the green outside Parliament. Not because of the road we have walked.

But because of the road our children walked. Too short. Too difficult. And far from the future they deserved.

Those shoes carried them through treatment rooms, hospital corridors, school playgrounds, family holidays and everyday moments that now live only in our memories.

They left us with a lifetime of love. And a lifetime of grief. The love is a gift we carry with pride. The grief is the price we pay for loving them so deeply.

On 3rd July, we will come together to remember our children. But we will also ask for change. Change that recognises that bereaved families need support long after the funeral.

Change that ensures parents are not left to navigate grief alone. Change that guarantees support for siblings whose loss is too often overlooked. Change that brings compassion into a system that too often disappears when a child dies.

This event is open to all bereaved parents, regardless of how their child died. Whether through illness, accident or any other circumstance, the love is the same and the loss is the same.

Bring your child’s shoes if you still have them. If you don’t, bring any child’s shoes as a symbolic reminder of the path our children walked and the shoes we now walk in every day.

Together, we will remember. Together, we will stand. Together, we will ask for change.

Now is the time.

For more information, please email [email protected] or send us a direct message or click the link - https://www.eventbrite.com/e/walk-in-our-shoes-national-bereaved-parents-day-2026-tickets-1991104960536?utm_experiment=test_share_listing&aff=ebdsshios

🧡 Until you have walked in our shoes, you can never truly understand.

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19/06/2026

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