13/10/2026
Honesty is the best policy when talking to children about death and dying - even though it can be painful.
Every child will require a different approach depending on their age, needs, and circumstances, but here are some ideas that might help guide the conversation:
➡️ Be open and honest as much as is possible, and in an age appropriate way.
➡️ Avoid using euphemisms like the person is ‘sleeping’ as this can be
confusing – particularly for younger children, or those who are neurodivergent.
➡️ Choose clear and simple language. As painful as it may be, it is best to be clear that the person has died and won’t be coming back.