26/08/2026
Man up.”
“Don’t cry.”
“Be a man.”
“Deal with it yourself.”
Boys and men hear these messages from a young age — and they can make it harder to recognise, express and ask for help with difficult emotions.
Being strong doesn't mean pretending you're not struggling.
You can be masculine and still be vulnerable.
You can be confident and still ask for help.
You can be strong and still say, “I'm not okay.”
The problem isn't masculinity itself. It's when boys are taught that being a man means suppressing emotions, never asking for help or proving yourself through aggression.
We need to give young men more ways to understand what they're feeling — not shame them for having feelings in the first place. 💜
What would you say to a young man who has been told to “man up"
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