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I am a proud mummy of a beautiful 16 year old daughter with Autism, Sensory processing disorder, Dyslexia, Dyspraxia, Hypermobility, Dyscaculia and Global Anxiety disorder. Dedicated to my true love, Avah Kay Lord # #
My Daughter has been diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum, as her Mother, my main goal is to raise more awareness on autism spectrum disorders, providing valuable information a

nd resources that help educate individuals and parents of autistic children. Here is a page that can hopefully be shared amongst all in Lancashire, Merseyside and possibly further! TOGETHER we can make a difference :-)

Events will also be displayed on the page such as autism show and where events will be held.

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Understanding sensory overload is key to recognising what happens when combined demands exceed available capacity. 🌻

UNDERSTANDING SENSORY OVERLOAD
When combined demands exceed available capacity

OVERLOAD IS CUMULATIVE
The nervous system may be processing multiple sensory, cognitive, social, and physiological demands at once. When these demands become overwhelming, regulation and communication may become more difficult.

James has taught me that overload is rarely about one single thing going wrong, it's the accumulation of everything his nervous system has been carrying since the morning. I think of capacity as a shared bucket. Sound, demands, people, pain, hunger, fatigue, light, and waiting all go into the same bucket, and a "small" trigger may simply be the last drop. Understanding this changed how I read his hardest moments. James is nonspeaking and his body tells me what he cannot.

EARLY SIGNS
Covering ears, eyes, or face. Pacing, humming, or faster movement. Repeating words, sounds, or actions. Becoming quieter or more rigid. Seeking escape, pressure, or familiar input. Reduced attention or slower processing.

BUILDING OVERLOAD
Difficulty understanding language. Reduced speech, AAC, or motor access. Increased distress or urgent movement. Clinging, pushing away, or hiding. Difficulty tolerating another demand. Loss of flexible problem solving.

OVERLOAD MAY BE EXPRESSED AS
Meltdown, an involuntary outward release of distress. Shutdown, withdrawal, stillness, or reduced access to movement and communication. Escape, running, leaving, or urgently seeking safety. Loss of coordinated control, crying, screaming, or movements the child cannot organise or stop.

WHAT ADULTS CAN DO
Reduce demands immediately. Lower sound, light, movement, and social input. Use fewer words and allow processing time. Create physical space and maintain safety. Offer familiar regulation tools without forcing. Keep AAC and other communication available. Do not lecture, question, or demand an apology during overload.

RECOVERY
Recovery may require quiet, deep pressure if welcomed, food, drink, sleep, or extended low demand time. Appearing calm does not always mean capacity has returned. Overload is not misbehaviour or a teaching moment. Prevention begins with noticing the build up.

What works for James might not work for another child, and some children need something completely different. Every child is unique.

TRAUMA INFORMED GUIDANCE FOR PARENTS AND CAREGIVERS
Think of capacity as a shared bucket that fills with sensory, cognitive, social, and physical demands together, not separately, so a "small" trigger may really be the last drop. Notice early signs like covering ears, pacing, or going quiet, and respond then rather than waiting for meltdown or shutdown. Reduce demands immediately once overload is building, lowering sound, light, and social input where you can. Protect recovery time generously, remembering that appearing calm does not always mean your child's capacity has actually returned. Never treat overload as a teaching moment or ask for an apology, since it is a physiological state, not a choice.

TRAUMA INFORMED GUIDANCE FOR PROFESSIONALS
Recognise that overload builds cumulatively across a day, so a student's response late in the day may reflect hours of accumulated demand, not the immediate trigger alone. Build environments that reduce unnecessary sensory, cognitive, and social load proactively, rather than only responding once distress is visible. Treat meltdown, shutdown, escape, and loss of coordinated control as expressions of overload, never as behaviour requiring discipline. Allow genuine recovery time after overload, understanding that a calm appearance does not confirm restored capacity. Share what precedes overload with families and colleagues so early signs can be caught consistently across settings.

RESEARCH BASE
Informed by Tavassoli, T., Marco, E. J., & Puts, N. (2026), Sensory Reactivity in Autism: Integrating Behavioural, Affective, Physiological, and Neural Dimensions, Current Psychiatry Reports, 28, Article 36. Poulsen, R., et al. (2024), How auditory processing influences the autistic profile: A review, Autism Research, 17(12), 2452 to 2470. Bodison, S. C., & Parham, L. D. (2018), Specific Sensory Techniques and Sensory Environmental Modifications for Children and Youth With Sensory Integration Difficulties: A Systematic Review, American Journal of Occupational Therapy, 72(1), 7201190040p1 to 7201190040p11.

Offer, observe, adapt. Support the nervous system before addressing the behaviour.

Connection over correction. Understanding over expectation. đź’™

See beyond the surface. Support the nervous system. 🌻

What does the early build up to overload look like for your child, student, or client? What has helped catch it before it becomes a meltdown or shutdown? Drop a đź’™ and share.

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Every share helps reach occupational therapists, teachers, doctors, SENCOs, and parent carers who need to understand sensory overload as cumulative capacity, not misbehaviour. Save this post for team training or share it with your community.

Save this for your team 🌻 Overload is cumulative. When sensory, cognitive, social, and physiological demands become overwhelming, regulation and communication may become more difficult. Reduce demands immediately, lower sound, light, movement, and social input, use fewer words, and keep AAC available. Do not lecture, question, or demand an apology during overload. Recovery may need quiet, deep pressure if welcomed, food, drink, sleep, or extended low demand time, and appearing calm does not always mean capacity has returned. Overload is not misbehaviour or a teaching moment. Please share to reach an OT, teacher, or SENCO today. 💛

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Flexible thinking helps autistic teens handle surprises, try new solutions, and manage change. Start small, stay calm, explore options, and celebrate progress!

30/08/2026

Sometimes the child who says “I’m fine” is carrying far more than anyone can see.

Self-harm is not “attention-seeking”. It can be a sign that a young person is struggling with feelings they do not yet have words for: anxiety, sadness, trauma, shame, pressure, loneliness, or feeling overwhelmed.

Changes like pulling away, wearing long sleeves, low mood, irritability, or not wanting to talk do not always mean self-harm. But they can be a gentle prompt to check in.

Try: “You don’t have to explain everything, but I’ve noticed you seem like you’re having a hard time. I’m here with you.”

Stay calm. Listen more than you speak. Avoid punishment or demands for promises. Let them know they are not in trouble and they do not have to cope alone. If you are worried, reach out to a GP, school wellbeing lead, counsellor, or local mental health support. If there is an immediate risk of serious harm, contact emergency services.

A caring conversation can make a bigger difference than we may ever know.

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