Titanic Gentlemen’s Club - Men’s Group

23/06/2026

🚢 THE ICEBERG PROJECT 🧊

🧊 This Week’s Iceberg Question:

When was the last time you genuinely felt happy?

Not just a good day.
Not a laugh at a joke.
Not putting on a brave face.

When was the last time you felt truly content, at peace, or proud of yourself?

Was it:
• Spending time with family?
• Achieving a goal?
• Being outdoors?
• Helping someone else?
• A memory from years ago?
• Something simple that money couldn’t buy?

Take a moment to think about it.

Sometimes looking back at what brought us happiness can help us find our way forward again.

Share in the comments if you’re comfortable, or send us a private message.

No judgement.
No criticism.
Just honest conversations and men supporting men.

Because sometimes the things beneath the surface deserve to be talked about.

21/06/2026

This Father’s Day, our thoughts are with all the dads who won’t get a call, a card, a hug, or the chance to spend time with their children.

We think of the fathers who have spent years fighting through the family court system, facing endless delays, mounting legal costs, and the emotional pain of being separated from the people they love most.

We think of the men who have drained their savings, lost their homes, damaged their health, and endured depression, anxiety, and loneliness in their determination to remain part of their children’s lives.

Of course, there are parents who should not have contact with their children, and safeguarding must always come first. But there are also countless decent, loving fathers who simply want the opportunity to be present, involved, and supportive parents.

Too often, fathers tell us they feel unheard, overlooked, and treated as though their role in their children’s lives is somehow less important. The stories we hear are heartbreaking.

No child benefits from losing a loving parent. Children need fathers too.

Today, we stand with every dad who is fighting to remain in his child’s life. We see you. We hear you. And we will continue to campaign for a system that is fair, balanced, and focused on what matters most: the wellbeing of children and the importance of both parents wherever it is safe and appropriate.

To every father facing this struggle: don’t give up. You are not alone. 💙

19/06/2026

Our Club had the pleasure of visiting (Naomh Gall social club - Naomh Gall CLG ) Naomh Gall Men’s Shed on Wednesday past after receiving an invitation from the group.

The lads made us feel extremely welcome from the moment we arrived. We were given a tour of the beautiful meadows surrounding the club, which many of us never knew existed, and it was fantastic to see such a great local resource.

Afterwards, we enjoyed Pizza and refreshments while listening to the stories of how the club was established, the journey they’ve been on, and the excellent work they continue to do within the community.

A great bunch of lads who made us feel right at home. We’d like to thank everyone at Naomh Gall Men’s Shed for their hospitality, and we’ll certainly be returning the invitation and welcoming them to our place in the near future.

Thanks again for a brilliant afternoon. 👏💙

16/06/2026

09/06/2026

I keep hearing people describe every act of extreme violence as a “mental health issue.” While mental health struggles are real and affect many good people, we need to be careful about using that label for everything.

Most men dealing with depression, anxiety, PTSD, stress, or other mental health challenges don’t go around attacking people. They go to work, look after their families, and fight battles that nobody else sees.

Trying to seriously harm someone is not something that should automatically be excused as a mental health problem. Personal responsibility still matters, and victims deserve justice.

We need to support people who are genuinely struggling with their mental health, but we also need to be honest about the difference between mental illness and violent criminal behaviour. They are not always the same thing.

07/06/2026

🚢 THE ICEBERG PROJECT 🧊

At Titanic Gentlemen, we know that most men are fighting battles nobody can see.

Like an iceberg, what people see on the surface is often only a small part of the story.

That’s why we’re launching The Iceberg Project.

Every week we’ll ask one of the powerful questions we use in our 1-to-1 wellbeing sessions to help men open up, connect, and realise they’re not alone.

🧊 This Week’s Iceberg Question:

What’s something you’re carrying right now that nobody knows about?

It could be:

• Struggling with your mental health
• Feeling lonely despite being surrounded by people
• Stress from work or finances
• A relationship that’s breaking down
• Anxiety about the future
• Grief you’ve never spoken about
• Feeling like you’re not good enough
• A habit you’re trying to overcome

You can use one of these examples or we’d love to hear your own personal answer.

Share in the comments or send us a private message if you’d prefer to keep it confidential.

No judgement.
No criticism.
No such thing as a stupid comment.

Just a community of men supporting men.

Because sometimes getting it off your chest is the first step forward.

04/06/2026

💚June is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month.💙

For decades, we’ve been told to protect women and children and we should.

Even today, much of the conversation is focused on supporting women and children. But there isn’t nearly enough conversation about the struggles men face every day.

The men carrying the weight of their families.
The men fighting battles they never talk about.
The men who are expected to stay strong no matter what.

Too many men suffer in silence because they’ve been taught that asking for help is weakness.

For many men, the first time they receive flowers is at their funeral.

And another hard truth:

Too often, the first time a man hears how much he was loved, respected, and appreciated is when someone is reading his eulogy.

Tell him now.

Tell your dad.
Tell your brother.
Tell your son.
Tell your husband.
Tell your mate.

Don’t save your kind words for a funeral.

At our men’s group, we’ll continue to do what we always do: listen, support, encourage, and stand beside one another. No judgment. No masks. No suffering alone.

💚Because men’s mental health matters.💚

Not when it’s too late.

Now. 💙

03/06/2026

🌟 Another fantastic night at the men's group tonight! 🌟

We enjoyed some great food from 🍕 4 Star Pizza while catching up and discussing all the exciting events and activities we have coming up over the next few months.

🎣 Plans are well underway for fishing trips, 🏛️ history talks, 🚶 walking tours, and site visits with Jason Burke. We also agreed on a date for our next 🏕️ camping trip, which everyone is really looking forward to!

There was also some really positive news shared tonight 🎉, with the possibility of us securing our own premises very soon. This would be a huge step forward for the group and the community we serve 🙌.

To top it all off, our 🎟️ lottery jackpot rolls over again and now stands at an incredible 💷 £500, which will be up for grabs next week! 🤩

It's great to see the group continuing to grow 🌱, with members supporting one another, building friendships 🤝, and creating opportunities to get involved in positive activities.

👏 Thanks to everyone who attended tonight. Exciting times ahead! 🚀