09/02/2025
I love this Dr. Arielle Schwartz! At this present point in my own recovery, as complex grief and trauma resurface, being still in my body actually feels dangerous yet is exactly what I need. Thankfully through somatic practice and compassion focused therapy I’m cultivating a safe enough space within myself to tap into rest tentatively and to learn that the worst will not happen or if it does that it’s not always my responsibility to hold everything together. Rest is not collapse or being frozen in trauma response. Rest is safety and restoration. What do you need today to feel safe enough to slow down and rest in stillness? 💕✌️☮️🌈
Today’s teaching (from Costa Rica over zoom) was all about the healing potency of resting in stillness.
Although rest is an integral part of our body’s rhythm, many of us have a complicated relationship to rest. That’s because our culture tends to condition us to believe that our self-worth is based on productivity. You might feel guilty for resting or believe that it is selfish to take time out. You might fear that if you slow down, you will miss an opportunity. Maybe you fear that you will lose momentum or that you will become stagnant. Perhaps you have received messages that you’re lazy if you’re not working hard or being productive. These ingrained messages can cause you to neglect your health or believe that “hard work” is what brings happiness. Sadly, this can lead you to feel disconnected from your deeper self, and you might question the point of all this hard work.
Over time, an addiction to busyness can also lead to burnout, which can affect your endocrine system functioning and overall physical health. Cultivating a nourishing relationship to rest takes consistency and practice. Paradoxically, when you do embrace the need for rest, you tend to be more focused and attentive during the day, which can ultimately allow you to be more productive.
In order to rest into a place of deep stillness, you must feel safe enough to let go of your defenses, which will allow you to access your parasympathetic nervous system’s relaxation response. Reclaiming a healthy relationship to stillness can take time.
Settling into stillness also allows you to access the inner wisdom that can be found within the depths of your psyche. As if diving deep below the surface of the ocean, you find the slowest moving currents of your soul’s wisdom. Within these depths, you connect to your intuition. As you reside in this deep connection to your heart, you learn to trust this inner knowing, which becomes the guiding compass for your life’s decisions.
Thank you Na Dine for capturing this moment from todays class 🪷🦋💖🙏🏼