05/10/2026
Week 5 – Handing back the pager
After 52 years, Brendan has handed back his pager. In our final instalment, h reflects on what a lifetime with the RNLI has taught him and shares a message for the volunteers who will follow in his footsteps.
What kept you volunteering for more than five decades?
To be honest, I feel volunteering to crew a lifeboat is one of the most noble deeds a person can do. There will be discomfort, risk and danger at times but being part of a team that saves a life, well, the reward is truly massive.
The RNLI is often described as one big family. How important have the friendships and camaraderie been throughout your volunteering journey?
I have had some wonderful memories of my time with the RNLI both in Rosslare and here in Barry, also when I served as relief coxswain at many stations, sailed with dedicated crews, and I am very proud of the trust and support they gave me when serving on their patch.
What are you most proud of when you look back on your time with the RNLI?
I had many proud moments; one of which was bringing the station’s new Severn Class ALB ‘Donald and Barbara Broadhead’ into Rosslare for the first time. It is an experience that few coxswains get to enjoy - it is special. Another proud moment was when Mary and I were invited to the Buckingham Palace garden party in recognition of my 50 years' service with the Institution.
As you hand back your pager after 52 years of service, what message would you give to the next generation of RNLI volunteers coming though?
Many new volunteers come from a non-maritime background. There is a fully structured training program in place with various levels of knowledge and competencies to be mastered on an assessment basis over time. There will be challenging times and sometimes discomfort that will test your resolve and commitment but remember you will become part of a dedicated team who will have your back, help and look out for you.
The rewards speak for themselves when lives are saved. In reality that's what it's all about. But, (unfortunately there is always a but) you need to prepare yourself also that on occasion despite best team efforts the desired result is not achieved. I have seen the sea when it is at its most benign and when it is at its most vicious, either state can pose a threat to life.
You need to be prepared to answer the call whenever tasking is requested. It can happen any time day or night whatever the weather.
So, as I drift off on the ebb tide of life outside of active RNLI operational involvement, I’m starting to enjoy nights of uninterrupted pager free sleep!!!! My message to current and new volunteers joining is that you all have my respect, admiration and support. I wish you fair winds and calm seas BUT in reality, you know it is not always going to be like that!
Take care and keep safe out there.
Brendan.