29/09/2026
Childhood Cancer Awareness Month 2026
Day 29
Having not had any other children of our own, this one is both challenging and straightforward to write. As a parent to an only child, I know how much time both mine and David dedicated to looking after Adam. Watching other families and getting to know them, I heard their struggles and the challenge of managing all their children. My heart ached for the siblings, no matter their age! These children suddenly have to cope without their mum and dad, possibly moving from the family home to staying with relatives or family friends. They are confused, frightened, sad and lonely, all while trying to understand what is happening and wondering if their sibling will be okay. They have lots of questions, but may not always want to ask or have the chance to ask, as some might not want to cause any trouble and feel like they will only stress their parents more. Children are not allowed to visit their brother or sister on the ward, which makes it even harder for them to understand. They have to witness their special friend change before them. By the time the sick sibling gets home, they will likely have less hair, be thinner and may have a feeding tube. They don’t see these changes gradually, like adults do, since adults have the opportunity to visit the ward. Some children may also feel frustrated and angry because it feels like they aren’t getting enough time with their parents, even though they know it is where the parents need to be to get everyone back home together. Siblings often feel lost and forgotten, if they are in the town with their parent everyone will ask how the sick child is but rarely does anyone ask how they are. Through a journey like childhood cancer, let us please remember that behind every little warrior, there is another child quietly fighting their own battle—just in a different way.