21/05/2026
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Male, 23 confesses:
"I’m 23, working in petrolium with a somehow stable income.
I was already in a longterm relationship with a girl I’ve known since high school. We’ve been together for years and things were progressing normally toward marriage, and there was no major issue between us.
Recently, I met a Russian girl, 27 years old, in a casual way in a public place in Hurghada a while ago, (she lives there) and we reconnected later. We liked each other from the beginning, and since then things developed very quickly.
We started seeing each other very frequently, around 2–3 times a week. I live in Cairo and she lives in Hurghada, so I usually drive about 4 hours each time just to meet her.
Over the last 2 months, the emotional connection has grown very fast. I became very attached to her in a way I didn’t expect.
She is a single mother with an 8-year-old daughter, and I’ve also spent time with her child and developed a strong emotional bond with both of them.
Her background is complicated. She was married to an Egyptian man for about 1.5 years, but the relationship was ab@sive. They are currently separated and in the process of divorce, though still legally not fully finalized. Her kid is hers but not his. He lives in another city with another wife and his kids, so she is currently living alone with her daughter in a place he rents for her, but he is planning her flee out of the country as soon as they finalize divorce.
The issue is that my feelings for her became very intense in a short time. I think about her constantly, and also about her little child, and I feel emotionally attached to both of them. At the same time, I feel like I’ve completely lost interest in other girls, cant even look to any other girl and feel any sort of interest or liking.
But I’m also aware that this has only been happening for about 2 months, so I’m unsure whether this is actually deep compatibility or just strong emotional intensity from a new and complex situation."
