16/10/2026
1. Community is not about sameness
What holds a community together? Shared values? A safe space? A sense of belonging? A common problem? Or simply the circumstances that bring people together?
Being part of a community doesn't mean being the same. But there is usually something that connects us: a shared need, a common purpose or a sense of belonging.
2. How much can we rely on a community?
What is the minimum amount of community we need to feel supported? And how can we join a community without feeling excluded or losing our independence?
Perhaps the answer is that we can belong to a place, to a group – and to ourselves.
3. Communities start with small things
A neighbourhood community can grow out of almost anything: a welcoming pub or bar, a shared laundry room or simply an everyday problem.
Look around! Trust grows through small acts. Dare to rely on one another: ask for small favours and offer to help in return.
4. Coordination makes the difference
One of the biggest challenges for communities is effective coordination. How can we organise around our shared needs? How can we share what we have and make better use of our collective resources?
Having a community is one thing. Making it work for everyone is another.
5. Keeping all options open: freedom or a trap?
Berliners, in particular, love keeping their options open: staying flexible and exploring different possibilities.
But is keeping all our options open always a sign of freedom? Or can it make it harder to commit and stay together?
Editor's note: For more on this topic, see Svenja Flaßpöhler's thought-provoking new book, “Zusammenbleiben”.
Thank you for this great conversation Monika Jiang | Loneliness to Oneliness and Rüzgar. And thank you Marta Orosz for the great moderation.