24/05/2025
YOUNG WOMAN ,YOU ARE NOT SMART ENOUGH TO SURVIVE BY YOURSELF_ _ _ _
In one of my previous articles, I mentioned that I would rather see women receiving more support from fellow women than from men. Why? Because unfortunately, some men take advantage of women’s vulnerability after offering assistance, sometimes even demanding favors in return.
As I continue to advocate for love, peace, and unity among women, I remain deeply grateful to God for the many women He has placed in my life, women who have assisted me in various ways.
The majority of my destiny helpers have been women. They helped make life more manageable, even though I must admit, some women also made life very difficult.
It’s a sad truth: I’ve encountered many women who genuinely enjoy seeing their fellow women struggle. Some take pleasure in hurting other women, as long as it benefits them or boosts their ego.
But over time, I’ve come to realize something powerful, certain groups of women are brought into our lives at specific times for a reason and a season.
Some women entered my life to teach me, offering valuable lessons, insight, and wisdom that shaped me into a better version of myself.
Others came into my life to learn from me, to be inspired, to be uplifted, and to grow in purpose. I can’t count how many times I’ve heard women say, “Tebo, since you came into my life, so much has changed. You’ve been a blessing to me.”
I’ve learned that if we fail to identify the different groups of women God sends our way and understand their roles, we risk missing our purpose. We end up hurt, disappointed, and full of complaints.
So, how do we teach each other? How do we learn from each other?
The first and most important key is a humble spirit, a teachable heart, and a generous and giving attitude.
God can use anyone to teach you. It might be your boss, your childhood friend, a classmate, or even the tattered, unkempt young woman you pass on your way home from work.
It might be your next-door neighbor, the elderly woman sitting next to you on the bus, anyone. They can walk into your life at any moment, teach you what you need to know, and walk away. Sometimes, it’s someone who’s been in your life all along, but now it’s their turn to teach you.
And then suddenly, the roles can reverse and you become the teacher, the vessel, the blessing in someone else’s life.
So, I ask: How prepared are you to identify these women, understand their roles, and respond appropriately?
We must be willing to give as much as we receive.
Teaching, giving, and serving others doesn’t diminish us, it strengthens us. It makes us wiser, deeper, and more fulfilled.
Let us be vessels of honor and blessings in the lives of the women we encounter.
Let our lives prove that goodwill, kindness, and tenderness are still possible and that these virtues are absolutely free and available for all.
Sheritalove ❤️
Thank you.
