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05/25/2026

What IS, never was. Don't think about that; pause, wonder and feel this truth of what you are - infinite isness, peace,and love :)

05/24/2026

Worry is based on the belief that 'you' can, should, or could act to control the very fears and desires that make up that 'you' ;)

05/24/2026

Loving reception of immediate experiencing is the portal to living in beauty, peace, and joy. Reality. :)

05/22/2026

In looking through and beyond the O in Opinion one sees conditioning and passes beyond belief to Being ;)

05/21/2026

THE GIFT OF GRACE AND GRATITUDE
The gift of awareness, of being aware one is aware, is the supreme gift that never stops giving. ;) Indeed, to open and directly know one's self-nature as nothing and everything, is to simply recognize one IS - here and now - unadorned divine awareness appearing as a limited human.
There's nothing to do to unwrap the gift; simply ease off on believing the mind's ideas 'about' reality and allow the space to introduce, to present itself. Only don't know. Open in quietude, in passive looking and alert listening.
Life and the living beauty and enjoyment of it, is the supreme gift called 'being'. In fine, One is the gift and the giver, yes 🙂

LOVE LOOKS NOT FOR PERFECTIONIn lovingly, alertly looking, in fully accepting, we may see without judgment, without pref...
05/19/2026

LOVE LOOKS NOT FOR PERFECTION
In lovingly, alertly looking, in fully accepting, we may see without judgment, without preference, a fuller spectrum of man’s inhumanity, humanity, and divinity. What arises then is something we may call ‘compassion’ - a ‘suffering with” the trials and travails of our self and supposed ‘others.’

In aware living, there’s a looking and seeing from what we are: love. There’s no preference, no denial. All that presents itself to its Self, is welcome to come and go. Love doesn’t seek to hold, grasp, confine, and control. In its freedom, it frees.

The news pictures portray the nature of a humanity that’s obviously not ‘perfect’. Indeed, “perfect” is just a word. In non-personal reality, life neither functions nor malfunctions - it does whatever, whenever; it moves fast then slow; it suddenly turns sharply then mysteriously swings back again in “curves and round-a-bouts” as the Brits say about driving on their imperfect roads. Indeed, there’s nothing so rigid, predictable, and determinately dull if not dead, as perfection. ‘Perfection’ is a word, not a fact. It’s a word vaguely indicating an ‘ideal’ condition which you and I may agree or disagree is ‘perfect’. Our perfect is personal, yes.

Indeed, only the Whole is perfect, not the parts. What we fully are is perfectly whole and entire; love, peace, joy, and beauty. In fine, we are the candles bearing light to our Self and the world each and every day. What we are matters; what we do shines, brings healing, comfort and consolation, if not always delight. Shine on: love all and all is well. :)

THOUGHT, BELIEF, AND ENJOYING NON-PERSONAL REALITY.~ Dualizing thought comes from the Problem Maker - the conditioned mi...
05/18/2026

THOUGHT, BELIEF, AND ENJOYING NON-PERSONAL REALITY.

~ Dualizing thought comes from the Problem Maker - the conditioned mind with its MEmory; from the mind-made 'me' with 'my' cultivated opinions masked as 'knowledge' and 'feelings' which seem fundamental to personal beliefs that variously, if not completely, comfort our born insecurities to not only survive but to surely assure we will thrive.

Of course, that daily struggle to survive is natural and essential, but the appetite to 'thrive' often gets distorted with expansionary notions of more and more; with corrupted convictions that insist enough will never be enough. When power and greed take over what we really need, there's no peace, no joy, yes? When, as a lifer in prison (who might have been in a boardroom) said, "You need to have a hot ball of anger to survive here." Indeed, nothing kills us more massively than the anger arising from socially in**ed conflict and confusion. Behind that fighter and the fight is often, if not always, that unrelenting driver which mankind is heir to: fear.

BELIEF KEEPS US FROM SEEING WHAT IS.
That same fear can be, if directly, fearlessly seen, the key to unlocking the prison of the angered anxiety in which we live and for which we fight. In seeing one's inner conflicts, the necessary need for sufficiency, for enough, for an abiding joy beyond fleeting pleasure, arises. There can be a drawing back of that curtain, to let in the light that reveals everything wrong doesn't have to be right, yes? A letting go of all that heavy fear which freights us; the releasing of suffered pains that allow us to face a today not freighted with yesterday's baggage and the imagined threats looming on tomorrow's horizon.

The whole disaster is, in truth, mind-made beliefs (all psychological fears, desires, and the need to control are conjured by the mind) that demand, as they destroy, the innate peace of one's natural, beautiful, joyful, and easeful being. I'll close with this insightful J Krishnamurti quote about the importance of a thoughtless, peaceful mind for a peaceful life, and invite you to leave the headland for a rest - take a long, lingering inner hike deep into the heartland: love.

"To be without thought is to be mature, because that is the essence of freedom. Thought is the reaction of the past, and today is the process of the past. To cut away all that completely is not to be thoughtless, a moronic or imbecilic state, or amnesia, but to use thought and to be free of thought."

~ In letting desires and fears pass, one doesn't need to believe, to 'know,' to solve the mind's problems. There's joy in being. :)

05/17/2026

AWARENESS IN A NUTSHELL.

"Awareness takes the place of consciousness; in consciousness, there is the 'I', who is conscious, while awareness is undivided; awareness is aware of itself. The 'I am' is a thought, while awareness is not a thought; there is no "I am aware" in awareness...one can be aware of being conscious, but not conscious of awareness. God is the totality of consciousness, but awareness is beyond all." ~Nisargadatta

~ It seems any insight into reality can and must effortlessly ‘happen’, via the graceful apparent 'dawning' of awareness – the non-sentient ‘non-experience’ that is not body/mind (consciousness) based. Reality IS. It is not an experience with its experiencer, or a concept with its conceiver, or a belief with its believer. Ideas are personal and conditioned; they propose, label, and pretend to 'know', but are always limited to re-presenting and symbolism. Binary thinking compares and contrasts, sifts and sorts data, and in so doing, divides or separates, ‘apparently’.

Pure, unconditioned awareness - that profound unsharable recognition, is the timeless 'reality' that the word merely indicates; it's about a fact, not a concept-about-a concept. Beyond mind, unattached, choiceless awareness, aka reality, is one's Being-nature. Love. 🙂

05/17/2026

In letting desires and fears pass, one doesn't need to believe, to 'know,' to solve the mind's problems. There's flowing in being

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