09/04/2026
āProtecting my peaceā sounds simple, but for many of us, itās something we were never taught we were allowed to do.
Maybe you learned to keep everyone happy.
Maybe you became the person who always understood, always helped, and always made room for others.
So when you start setting boundaries, it can feel uncomfortable.
You might feel guilty.
You might worry youāre being selfish.
You might wonder if youāre letting people down.
But boundaries arenāt about shutting people out.
Theyāre about creating space for your own needs, protecting your energy, and building relationships where you donāt have to abandon yourself to keep the peace.
Saying ānoā isnāt selfish.
Sometimes itās the way you finally start saying āyesā to yourself.