11/01/2026
November is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month, and it’s something that hits a little closer to home. Archie was an amazing father and husband, a dedicated coach who spent so much time coaching his kids’ sports teams, and someone who was always checking in on others to make sure they were okay. He showed up for the people in his life, gave so much of himself, and was someone who genuinely cared about others.
From the outside, it seemed like he had it all. But what people saw on the surface didn’t tell the whole story, and not everyone knew the pain he was carrying inside. I think that’s what makes this conversation so important. We can know someone, love someone, see them every day, and still not fully know what they’re struggling with.
I wish talking about mental health felt easier. That asking for support didn’t come with the fear of being judged or feeling like you’re putting your problems on someone else. That people knew they could be honest about how they’re really doing without feeling like a burden.
We can’t always know what someone is going through, but we can make sure the people in our lives know they have someone to turn to. Someone who will listen, without judgment, and remind them they don’t have to figure everything out on their own.
We also know there’s still a lot of work to be done when it comes to mental health care and support. We’re not mental health professionals, but through what we do, we hope to help raise awareness and funds for grassroots mental health initiatives in our community that are working to make a difference.
Please check in on others and make space for the honest conversations, even when they’re hard. And if you’re the one struggling, you matter just as much as the people you’re always showing up for. You are not a burden, and you don’t have to carry everything alone.
Pictured above: Cheryl, Geoff, Archie, Bruce, Russ, Kathy, and their family dog, Stumphy.