Wish I wasn't in this club

Wish I wasn't in this club MISCARRIAGE & BABY LOSS SUPPORT
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I know I’m a little late to this trend and everyone’s kinda over it🙃 But I think the chicest thing anyone can do is reme...
08/05/2026

I know I’m a little late to this trend and everyone’s kinda over it🙃 But I think the chicest thing anyone can do is remember that love doesn’t stop just because a heartbeat did, and grief is just all that love!🫂❤️‍🩹

Thinking of anyone heading into August with grief on their shoulders. Anyone feeling triggered by dates this month might...
08/01/2026

Thinking of anyone heading into August with grief on their shoulders. Anyone feeling triggered by dates this month might hold❤️‍🩹🥺🫂 We’re taking a moment to remember all of the babies that had due dates this month, or were lost in August of any year, or pregnancy tests that were positive this month of a previous year before you lost them❤️‍🩹

Each of us in this club all know too well how hard important dates can be! Living through them while mourning what you’ve lost and how things should be is not an easy feat.

Taking this moment to see you!🥺🤍 To honour you and your wee babies! And sending you the biggest virtual hug a person can!🫂🖤

I know there’s nothing that can be said to make it better. But I’m so sorry for your loss!🥺❤️‍🩹 I know how hard it can be when it’s so heavy and present in your hearts meanwhile the rest of the world is unaware of the significance of this month or a day for you❤️‍🩹

This morning I’ve been sitting and praying for each of you on this page! And I’m also taking a moment to pray for anyone that finds this month hard🖤

We would love love love to hear about your babies! Please share below their name, or a due date, or something you remember them by, or a photo as I know we can share photos in comments now!🫂💕 or if you want to be anonymous head over to our Instagram stories and you’re welcome to share on there🤍💕🫂 big hugs and love always! X

Cause now I live for us both, so all I do, I do to honour you!🫂🤍
08/01/2026

Cause now I live for us both, so all I do, I do to honour you!🫂🤍

Studies show that when you’re pregnant, whether your pregnancy survives or ends in loss. Cells from the baby live on in ...
07/24/2026

Studies show that when you’re pregnant, whether your pregnancy survives or ends in loss. Cells from the baby live on in the mother forever and travel through the circulatory system, remaining in blood dense areas such as the heart!

We will carry them forever! That’s something I will ALWAYS hold onto! Did you know this fact? That we will always carry a part of our baby whether they survived or not?

ALSO - cells from your babies can migrate to a new pregnancy. Meaning that your future babies also will hold the cells of every baby been before. Including babies you lost😭 doesn’t that just turn you into a blubbering mess to think about😭🥹❤️‍🩹🫂

Three years ago today, I said goodbye to my twin girls. It’s amazing how one date on the calendar can completely change ...
07/17/2026

Three years ago today, I said goodbye to my twin girls. It’s amazing how one date on the calendar can completely change you. You can feel like you’re doing okay, like you’ve learned to carry the weight of your grief… and then the anniversary arrives, and it hits you like a ton of bricks.

Death anniversaries are strange. The world keeps turning. The sun still shines. People laugh, celebrate, and go about their day, while you’re quietly reliving the hardest day of your life.

If you understand this feeling —whether it’s been three days, three years, or three decades, love leaves a lasting imprint.

Today, I’m thinking of every parent carrying the impossible weight of remembering while the rest of the world carries on as if it’s just another day.

Today, I’m remembering my girls, and I’m holding space for every parent carrying their babies in their hearts. 🤍

Taking a moment to pray for all of you feeling heavy this month!🖤 We would love to hear about your July babies below wit...
07/01/2026

Taking a moment to pray for all of you feeling heavy this month!🖤 We would love to hear about your July babies below with their name, or a due date, or something you remember them by🫂💕 or if you want to be anonymous head over to our Instagram stories and you’re welcome to share on there🤍💕🫂 hugs always!

Everytime we head into a new month I think of everyone in this community❤️‍🩹 I wonder who is struggling heading into this month! Whether this month in particular is the one that brings you the most heartache? From all the what could’ve, would’ve, should’ve beens😰💓🫂

Important dates are hard, living through them while mourning what you’ve lost and how things should be is so heavy.

Taking this moment to see you!💓🤍 To pray for you, to honour you and your wee babies! And sending you each a big virtual hug!🫂🖤

I think with July in particular as Summer is taking full force☀️ With beautiful flowers and weather and skies, I can’t help but see our babies in all the beauty!😭💓 This month has triggering dates for me! But I see all the beauty around me and choose to feel them close in those moments. Thinking of everyone else feeling similar ❤️‍🩹💓🫂

Reminder to be gentle with yourself🫂 Just have a day❤️‍🩹
06/30/2026

Reminder to be gentle with yourself🫂 Just have a day❤️‍🩹

♥️Today we remember and honour loss Dads too. Fathers whose hearts are a bit heavy and aching because this day isn’t wha...
06/21/2026

♥️Today we remember and honour loss Dads too. Fathers whose hearts are a bit heavy and aching because this day isn’t what it should be! I hope you remember still how loved you are! How deserving you are to be held today!

I know most of our followers on here are women, with my stats only showing 2.7% of our followers being men. But I feel like the loss community space in general often forgets to hold space for the men. I know how much you’re affected by this too! So I’m so so sorry that you’re here. I’m so sorry for your loss! And so sorry if you ever feel forgotten! Sending so much love today! We see you Dads! Thank you for all you do in supporting us through loss! Your babies will be watching you so proud today and everyday❤️‍🩹🫂

It’s infertility awareness week and my heart has been heavy reading all of your stories🫂❤️‍🩹💓 It affects 1 in 6 people w...
04/21/2026

It’s infertility awareness week and my heart has been heavy reading all of your stories🫂❤️‍🩹💓 It affects 1 in 6 people worldwide! This includes both females AND males.

For anyone walking the quiet, complicated path of infertility… you are not alone. 🤍

Behind so many smiles are stories of waiting, hoping, grieving, and holding on. Stories that aren’t always seen or spoken, but are deeply felt every single day.

This week, and always, we honor the strength it takes to keep showing up. The love that exists long before a child is held. The courage it takes to hope again.

And for the mothers who journeyed but have stopped trying and didn’t end with a baby in their arms — your motherhood is real, your love is real, and your loss deserves to be held with tenderness. 🤍

If any of this is your story, I see you. You matter. And you don’t have to carry this alone. 🤍

Love always -Jade WIWITC founder

It’s 2026… and Black mothers are still fighting to be heard, to be cared for, and too often—to survive.How is it that we...
04/18/2026

It’s 2026… and Black mothers are still fighting to be heard, to be cared for, and too often—to survive.

How is it that we have advanced medicine, endless information, and yet Black women are still more likely to lose their babies… and their own lives… simply because of how care is given, received, and denied?

This isn’t about awareness anymore—we know.
This is about action. Accountability. Change.

These statistics are not just numbers.
They are mothers who should be here.
They are babies who were deeply wanted, deeply loved, and are forever missed.
They are families carrying grief that should have been preventable.

And what makes it even heavier—so much of this is preventable.

We cannot keep looking away.
We cannot keep letting voices go unheard.
We cannot keep accepting this as “just the way it is.”

Every mother deserves to feel safe, seen, and believed.
Every baby deserves a chance.

This week—and always—we speak their names, we hold space for their stories, and we push for the kind of care that truly protects and honours Black mothers and their babies.

Because it should not still be like this.
And we should not stop until it changes.

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