10/02/2023
Raise your hand if you're doing this work!! ✋
Hard truth: There's no way we will prevent our kids from encountering other adults and institutions who attempt to shame or coerce them. We live in an anti-child society, so it's bound to happen.
When it does, my hope is that our kids know how to name, reject it, and understand that they deserve to be treated better than that. I know it's not that neat and tidy of a process, and I understand there are coercive tactics that happen in schools and other institutions that may feel impossible to change.
Our kids need to know how they deserve to be treated, starting at home. I want our kids to be *shocked* if someone disrespects them. If they're treated sub-par at home, go out into the world, and are treated the same way, then that's what they think they deserve.
Let's show our kids (and inner kids) that they deserve better than that.
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