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Women Won't Forget http://twitter.com/ #!/womenwontforget Our main event takes place on December 6th, The National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women.

The Vigil includes:
A Native Healing ceremony, speeches from survivors and political figures, and spoken word/musical performances

We also run smaller events and campaigns throughout the year. Our permanent memorial consists of 14 Oak Trees and a memorial boulder and engraved plaque at Philosopher's Walk, U of T.

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NBA + Atlanta Hawks: Dump your strip club collab

We're standing with San Antonio Spurs center Luke Kornet and calling on the US National Basketball Association and Atlanta Hawks to dump their "Magic City Monday" strip club collaboration.

The NBA's official website pitched the themed March 16 game night - sponsored by an Atlanta-based s*xploitation venue - as a "celebration" of an "iconic cultural institution".

But the s*xual objectification of women is not "culture". It's exploitation.

Does the NBA genuinely believe that an industry that trades on the exploited, abused and trafficked bodies of women for men's s*xual entertainment is something to be celebrated - and promoted to an all-ages audience that includes children?

Owned by the Atlanta‑Fulton County Recreation Authority, State Farm Arena will host the s*xploitation-themed event. The insurance giant's naming rights are worth a reported estimate of $8.75m per year. We'd like to know if the AFCR and State Farm endorse Atlanta Hawks' strip club promos intended for a broad viewership that includes kids.

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03/06/2026

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01/04/2026

Stand With Survivors

Canada must stop investing in war (investments which benefit only death merchant profiteers) and instead invest in the national security of the 52% of the population who face a daily barrage of male violence against women and girls, including a femicide every other day.

And journalists have to stop hiding perpetrators and targets. The thousands of "people" who require these shelters are women and children. Aura Freedom International has an excellent guide that provides journalists with tips on how to properly report on this).

By Molly Hayes (Globe and Mail)

In October, staff at a women’s shelter in Hamilton had to turn away 67 women seeking refuge. The next month, they turned away 51.

With only 40 funded beds, Martha House, for women and children fleeing violence, would need to quadruple its capacity to accommodate all of this demand. The shelter is simply too full – and has been for as long as staff can remember.

Across Canada, a woman is killed by an intimate partner roughly every week. The most dangerous place for a woman, statistically, is in her own home. But as femicide rates continue to rise during a national housing and affordability crisis, emergency violence shelter stays have also grown longer than ever – creating what advocates say is a potentially lethal bottleneck in the system, leaving women at risk with nowhere to turn.

In 2019, the average stay at Martha House was around 10 weeks. Now, families are staying in the shelter upwards of 32 weeks, according to Tessa McFadzean, director of women’s services for Good Shepherd Hamilton, which runs Martha House. Larger families are often staying more than a year.

On a recent December morning at the shelter, Ms. McFadzean pointed down the hallway, where holiday wrapping paper covered up a window on the shelter’s communal playroom; a festive attempt at privacy while they use the room as an overflow space for a family to live in – likely for months.

She said stable housing has come to feel like “a distant aspiration” for many of their shelter clients.

“It does not feel attainable, it does not feel realistic for a family. So, we hear people say: ‘I’m just going to stay [with my abuser], because what is my other option?’” Ms. McFadzean said.
“In the meantime, while we wait for a robust solution, people are dying.”

It’s a concern that’s echoed by advocates and anti-violence sector workers across the country.

More than 60,000 people were taken in by about 560 emergency and second-stage shelters across the country in 2022-23, according to the most recent report from Statistics Canada in 2024.

“The housing continuum is broken,” said Cat Champagne, executive director of the Alberta Council of Women’s Shelters.

In her province, children now make up 40 per cent of those being turned away from shelters, according to a 2024 ACWS report. About 8,140 Albertans, including 3,170 children, were admitted to its shelters during 2023-24.

Crystal Giesbrecht, director of research at the Provincial Association of Transition Houses and Services of Saskatchewan (PATHS), said housing is the main concern raised from every shelter in her network.

“Every single agency – whether they’re north, south, rural, urban – is talking about housing, the lack of available housing,” she said. “Housing just continues to be top of the list for issues and concerns for shelter workers in this province.”

In a recent interview with The Globe and Mail, the federal Women and Gender Equality Minister Rechie Valdez said her government is committed to providing consistent, stable funding to the anti-violence sector. The 2025 budget allocated $223.4-million over five years, beginning in 2026-27, specifically for gender-based violence programs and organizations.

This is separate from the government’s national action plan on gender-based violence, which was announced in 2022 with $525-million committed over four years to provinces and territories, including to support front-line organizations. (That four-year funding phase will end next year.)

When it comes to housing specifically, she pointed to the federal government’s Build Canada Homes initiative, which was announced in September, and includes a dedicated $1-billion commitment toward new transitional and supportive housing units. The minister said emergency shelters, too, would be eligible for funding as part of that investment.

But those on the front lines – and the agencies who work with them – say in the meantime, the sector remains overstretched and under-resourced.

Marc Hull-Jacquin, founder of Shelter Movers, a non-profit organization that offers free moving and storage services to women fleeing domestic violence, received $3-million from the federal government in 2022 to expand services into the Prairie provinces.

Marci Ien, who was the women and gender equality minister at the time, hailed the organization’s “proven track record of success."

“We know that they’re changing lives,” she said.

However, that funding is now set to run out in March, and Mr. Hull-Jacquin said the government told them it will not be renewed – that ongoing operational funding is not in their mandate, and that he should take it up with the provinces.

But the point of launching a national action plan, Mr. Hull-Jacquin argues, was to provide national cohesion so that access to resources does not depend on a woman’s postal code.
“I don’t know what else they want from us. We’re doing the thing we promised we’d do,” Mr. Hull-Jacquin said. “This is not a test case. This is not a proof of concept. We are an established, decade-old organization that has completed 10,000 moves.”

Ms. Champagne said she was disappointed to learn of Shelter Movers’ funding cut, because of the assistance they provide to shelters in Alberta. “Nobody else is doing that work. When you close that gap or don’t fund those agencies, someone else doesn’t always pick up the slack.”

Progress on combatting intimate-partner violence stalling under new government, advocates fear

While there have been some boosts to the anti-violence sector at provincial levels, they have been inconsistent and, those on the front lines say, they are nowhere near enough.

In New Brunswick, for example, the provincial government announced $9.1-million in funding for the domestic violence sector last year, which Maureen Levangie, executive director of the Domestic Violence Association of New Brunswick, called “the first really substantial increase in over a decade.”

It was overdue and really needed, but New Brunswick is still catching up, she said.
“We’re really not seeing the rates of violence reflected in the financial response from the provincial government,” she said.

In Ontario, the province recently pledged $26.7-million over two years “in shelter spaces to protect survivors of gender-based violence and to strengthen the family court support worker program.”

But the ask from Ontario shelters had been for more than twice that – just to meet the gaps in current funding, said Ms. McFadzean, who sits on the board of the Ontario Association of Interval and Transition Houses.

“We are in a very pinnacle crisis point where women and children’s lives are at stake,” she said.

12/09/2025

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12/08/2025

She doesn’t owe you s**t.

Why are you telling her to smile? Are you owed a smile? No, you are not. You aren’t owed s**t.

She doesn’t owe you a smile, a wave, her phone number, a date, a second date, a kiss, a bl***ob, or a f**k. It doesn’t matter if you complimented her, bought her drinks, took her to dinner, gave her a ride, or made her a f**king mix tape. She doesn’t owe you s**t.

Even if you married her and paid for everything it doesn’t give you possession over her body. Slavery is illegal, and marital r**e has been against the law in all 50 states since 1993.

I keep saying “you,” but perhaps it’s not you, because Not All Men, right?

For the truly good men, realize that I’m using the royal “you” in this context for effect. If you too are sick of the way women are treated like pretty things to be possessed, please keep reading., because you have a job to do.

She doesn’t owe you an explanation as to why she doesn’t want to go out with you. She doesn’t owe you conversation. When you catcall her, she is under no obligation to act appreciative or even acknowledge your presence, because she doesn’t owe you s**t.

She shouldn’t have to explain that she has a boyfriend, or make one up. “No” is a complete sentence, not the beginning of a negotiation process. If you continue to pursue her, she doesn’t have to eventually give in to your “charms.”

This isn’t what you’ve been conditioned to expect. You watched Leonard pursue Penny on Big Bang Theory and it worked out for him. Kevin James had two beautiful women to choose from in Zookeeper and has a hot wife in King of Queens. The nerd got the girl in Revenge of the Nerds via outright r**e. Guys getting the girl via relentless stalking has happened innumerable times in movies. Getting back to the banging on Big Bang Theory, the weasel-like Howard has a hot wife and in one episode the overly nerdy Raj is alternating between the beds of two beautiful women.

It’s enough to make any guy thinks the world owes him a model or three. But it doesn’t owe you something, and neither does she.

Many women live in fear of guys who pursue them, and many are practiced in deescalating. They’ve been hassled and catcalled and groped and stalked and even assaulted. They’ve been told to smile and insulted for their looks and called a bitch and a slt and told to loosen up … and much, much worse.

They have been treated like possessions by strangers as well as by men they know so many times that their lives can’t help but be affected by it. Some are desensitized, and others become hypersensitive. So, what can you, the good man, do about it?

Stop turning a blind eye. Believe what women say and admit that r**e culture is a real thing. Call it out wherever you see it. Don’t be a bystander to such harassment. Make the harassers feel harassed and perhaps they’ll rethink their behavior.

Be an ally to women, not just another adversary. They get enough s**t from police and security guards and church leaders and parents and significant others who think they were asking for the abuse. Don’t participate in victim blaming.

Put the blame where it belongs: on the perpetrators.

Get both volumes of "On This Day in History S**t Went Down" at JamesFell.com/books.

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